Prove yourself truthful and honest All the time

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   k2khanposted 3 years ago

   I have a lot to say but it is useless when you are not trusted by someone. You are wasting your feelings, your precious words when you are completely wrong in someone's eyes. No matter how hard you try to prove yourself pure and honest, you can't clear up the misunderstanding.
   No one can bear character assassination all time, it really hurts and painful.

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      Castlepalomaposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      More of the problem is that I am honest to a fault. Many people can not handle the truth or very set in their ways of seeing and doing.
      New ways of thinking are more for the few.

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         Kathryn L Hillposted 3 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, the truth is often very hard to accept.
         Why, do you suppose?
         just like drinking coffee?
         a habit?
         or absolute resistance to it.

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         k2khanposted 3 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, this could be another reason Castlepaloma!
         People who are used to lying cannot handle the truth, its very hard to digest.

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      dashingscorpioposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      No matter who you are or what you do there will always be people who dislike you, won't trust you, or even hate you. That's life!
      
      However on the flipside there will be those who like you, trust you, and even love you.
      
      People pleasers have the most difficult time accepting some people simply aren't going to like them no matter what they do or say.
      We all get rejected by others!
      
      
      
      

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         Castlepalomaposted 3 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, one door may closed, yet another will open.

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   Jodahposted 3 years ago

   If some sees you as dishonest or untrustworthy, it is often difficult to convince them otherwise no matter what you do. You can keep trying to convince them otherwise, or just forget them and move on. If they are wrong others will not be swayed by their opinion. Proving your  honesty and truthfulness to others should be your focus.

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      k2khanposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Moving on is really difficult and painful but we cannot do anything because we can't change someone' thoughts and wrong ideas. May be everyone has different criteria for testing others.
      
      Thank you Jodah for your sincere advice!
      Wishes and prayers.

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   Kathryn L Hillposted 3 years ago

   It is a good idea to listen to what another says about you and take it seriously to change for the better. It is a good idea to tell the person you are sorry for anything offensive you unknowingly did and resolve to stop the behavior. We can change and sometimes we need to. You are in close contact with that person for a reason.
   If there is no reason, yes, move the f on.

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      k2khanposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Agreed Kathryn!
      But when you have done your 100 percent and every time you are suspected with no reasons and proofs, you shatter from within.

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