How does a girl know if a guy likes her and he is sincere?

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  1. gracefaith profile image60
    gracefaithposted 13 years ago

    Hi there folks,

    I am doing a hub series on men and womens behaviors in romantic relationships and their roles and behaviors from from when attraction occurs till when actually in the relationship. I did the first called 'where have all the Princesses gone, and where are all the Knights?'. It was introductory and addressed both sexes behaviors in the romantic context- It's also told in a quirky, sweet tongue- in- cheek way.

    I need assistace from you hubbers, man and woman, for a future Hub. How does a lovely lady know when a dashing Gentleman likes her? wink Make it as specific and general as you like and from any angle. I NEED YOUR INSPIRATION!!! smile

    Fiona smile xxx

    1. curlytree2009 profile image35
      curlytree2009posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Guys have different means of telling and expressing their feelings. However, I can say that if a man is sincere to his feelings, he will let you experience the love that you've never felt before in his own way.

    2. Ben Evans profile image67
      Ben Evansposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      It is hard especially when 2 people are shy.  If either a woman or man asks the other, they will tell.

      We arent used to asking.  Most people will play games.  If a person were to ask:

      I like you.  Do you like me?

      They will get a direct response.  No will never be a no but it will be answered in a I like you but...............  A yes will be a yes I like you.

    3. leeberttea profile image56
      leebertteaposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      The most important indicator of a man's feelings for a woman is if he calls her after getting into her pants. If he doesn't call after getting some, you can be sure there's no chemistry!

  2. rebekahELLE profile image85
    rebekahELLEposted 13 years ago

    well, a gentleman would be kind and attentive, phone calls, although not excessively, respectful of her time, plan first few dates, expresses interest in wanting to be with her.  I guess this would be the knight... not sure if there are too many left. or they are in hiding.

    1. gracefaith profile image60
      gracefaithposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks. Harvest thoughts from male friends and report back of you find anything. This hubber needs help tongue

  3. Shadesbreath profile image82
    Shadesbreathposted 13 years ago

    Depends on the guy.  A high-minded, romantic type might begin by leaving poetic gifts or some other form of anonymous clues to enhance the experience before revealing his feelings.  A neanderthal type might just grab her ass.  There's quite a sliding scale in between.

    1. gracefaith profile image60
      gracefaithposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Hahaha, tell me about it! tongue

      Well lets just say it's a gentleman and no physical contact has occurred yet smile

      The key here is genuine interest, not the 'hots'. I'm doing this for a series on genuine and honorable behaviors between men and women.

      Keep the thoughts coming. I have to admit I am a bit shady on this one. There must be some general rules of thumb or tell- tail clues? big_smile

  4. RecoverToday profile image75
    RecoverTodayposted 13 years ago

    Time will tell if he is honest or not. Look for signs and signals of dishonesty. Are there holes in his stories? Does he get defensive when crossed?  Does he follow up with phone calls as promised?  Does he show up when he says he will? Have you noticed any 'half-truths' in his answers?  Does he omit things that later are revealed as a surprise? 

    I wrote Hub on this very thing.

  5. Muktu profile image60
    Muktuposted 13 years ago

    If a guy is shy then she may never know. Maybe include a section on paying some attention to the quiet guys.

    I've always thought girls already know when a guy likes them. Isn't that one of a girl's powers? But when it comes to shy guys who may in fact turn out to be great boyfriends, girls seem clueless. They'll go for the extroverted dude who turns out to be a jerk every time.

    Good luck with you project!

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      poetlorraineposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      r u shy??????????????????/

    2. Richieb799 profile image64
      Richieb799posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Well said!

  6. Black Lilly profile image60
    Black Lillyposted 13 years ago

    His eyes change. When he looks at you, there is that... deep pure look.
    This sign means he is truly into you, whatever he says or does.

  7. ceciliabeltran profile image66
    ceciliabeltranposted 13 years ago

    Listen, it's simple. A guy can like and not do anything. This only means he likes you but not enough. When a guy likes you, he'll let you know. He'll be overt about it. If he's not making an overt move but flirts with you, he's undecided.

  8. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Surprises! Little ones in the beginning! He makes time to be with you regardless of whats going on and always invites you to come

  9. profile image62
    logic,commonsenseposted 13 years ago

    If he puts her before himself, then he is into her and is probably sincere.

  10. habee profile image93
    habeeposted 13 years ago

    If he holds your hair while you throw up.

  11. habee profile image93
    habeeposted 13 years ago

    Yes, Ben, I agree. I've always found the direct approach to be best.

  12. generalbrat profile image68
    generalbratposted 13 years ago

    He will be drooling from his mouth and he wouldn't have a hard on but this could also mean he is (gay)!

  13. profile image0
    poetlorraineposted 13 years ago

    never be fooled by flowers, like never

  14. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    ask Audrey on Cornation Street smile

  15. tools951 profile image39
    tools951posted 12 years ago

    He will invite you to hang out with him or his friends.
    Play with your hand.
    He has direct eye contact.
    Gives you a close hug.

    1. watchya profile image60
      watchyaposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Play with my hand ? yikes
      now I'm scared !

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    Twenty One Daysposted 12 years ago

    Personally, men are naturally assertive -pro and con- but it is in our make up. When I liked a women, just to like I usually was politely evasive and a little less chatty. When I was more than liking a women, it was straight to the point. I never minced words or played the delay game.

    A very key factor is eloquence, style and honesty.
    My wife is ever-so-used to being hit on -blond, blue eyed, tall, eastern European. Most men either went overboard with tonin or went kiddo-land being too silly. When we first met, i was intrigued, but played not interested. Second time we spend three days together between the SoHo grand hotel lounge and the Jersey shore. Been together ever since...

    1. ceciliabeltran profile image66
      ceciliabeltranposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      more than liking a women? lol freudian slip. lol

  17. Misha profile image63
    Mishaposted 12 years ago

    She doesn't

    1. ceciliabeltran profile image66
      ceciliabeltranposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      oh she does, she is sometimes in denial though.

  18. Jay Stizzle profile image61
    Jay Stizzleposted 12 years ago

    All she has to do is ask.

  19. myownworld profile image75
    myownworldposted 12 years ago

    You want to talk, he's there to listen....You feel like sharing, he wants to.. just as much. You need space, he moves back but waits. You push him away, he still hopes. He never wants to leave even having known the worst about you. In short, he's just there for you - yet without being overbearing. As simple as that. smile

  20. sh5547 profile image60
    sh5547posted 12 years ago

    If he is not calling, texting or emailing you, he's not interested. Assuming he is doing those things, the best way to know if a man is just a player, is to tell him that you will not have sex with him until your wedding night, and mean it. That will separate the men from the boys in an instant. If he is a player, he will move on to an easy target. If he wants YOU, he will do what you require of him. Women have all the power but we give it away to easily and cheaply these days.

  21. AOkay12 profile image60
    AOkay12posted 12 years ago

    If a man is interested in you, he will keep frequent contact with you.  Also, your conversations should reflect what his values are. He will also want to spend quality time with you, outside of his residence by taking you on dates.  If he's into sex only, you will spend most of your time together at his place.

  22. lxxy profile image60
    lxxyposted 12 years ago

    I'm not quite sure. But here's what not to do:


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