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Description Of Sex

  1. Liberate profile image54
    Liberateposted 7 years ago

    I'm 16 And Have Never Been Kissed; Only Reason Being I'm Simply Too Much Of A Person; Yes I'm Broken And Hurt; Though My Individuality Is Quite Unique; And For A Relationship I'm Just Simply Unstable; With Slight Problems; I'll Take It To Heart.

    Though; Is Sex Just Over Rated? People Running saying It's Simply Outstanding; Whats Your Opinion?

    ( I Also Believe in Sex After Marriage)

    1. schoolgirlforreal profile image80
      schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      wait if that's what you believe , don't give in to pressure.
      My freinds in thier thirties were both virgins when they married. It still happens and it's YOUR business.

      Kissing will come eventually.

      that's all I got to say.

    2. saleheensblog profile image61
      saleheensblogposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      16? and thinking about sex?

  2. alternate poet profile image66
    alternate poetposted 7 years ago

    If you are 16 you are breaking the TOS of this site and should quit now.

  3. Stevennix2001 profile image90
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    yeah, i agree with alternate poet here.  I just saw your post, and already reported it along with your profile to hubpages, since your an under age user.  Sorry.  However, it's not a good idea to ask anonymous strangers about what sex is like, as you never know what kind of weirdos and crazy people might respond.  Not saying any names or insinuating anyone in particular, but i'm just saying.  Look, if your that curious about sex, I'm sure you can probably go to your local library to read a book on it, or you should talk to your parents or teacher about it. I'm sure they would be in a better position to talk it over with you, that you can trust, and are possibly looking out for your well being.  Versus here, anyone that responds to you may not necessarily be looking after your best interests.

    1. Liberate profile image54
      Liberateposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      My Writing Means The World To Me; And Without It; I'll Have Nothing; I Don't Have Friends; People Just Call Me A Freak; And I Really Need This; It's The Only Way I Can Express My Emotions; Instead Of Cutting Myself.

      I'm In tilted To An Opinion... Writing Is Fantastic; It Gives Me Meaning In Life

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image90
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        look, i understand where your coming from on this. I really do.  In fact, my writing too gives me a lot of joy, and I love how hubpages gives all of us the freedom to write almost whatever we want.  However, even if I hadn't reported you, then chances are somebody else would have.  As it clearly states in the TOS agreement that users have to be at least 18 years of age.  If you admit that in a forum that your a minor, then they will report you.  Heck, someone might have reported you already without posting in this forum, and you don't know who they are.  the only reason why you know i reported you because i admitted it.

        Look, im sorry that I already reported you, but you were going to get caught anyway, since you already admitted that your 16 years old. 

        Yes, you are entitled to your opinion, and I think it's great that you want to write.  Seriously, I wish I had started getting passionate about it when i was your age.  however, even if you do get banned from hubpages, it doesn't mean you have to stop writing.  Heck, in fact you can always write to express yourself.  Whether it be online or offline.  There's nothing stopping you.  Look, i'm sorry that you view me as the bad guy in this situation and if you want to hate me, then that's fine.  however, being a minor and asking about what sex is like online with no knowledge of who might read and respond to it, then that's very dangerous.  it could get you into a lot of trouble, as the person that responds may try to take advantage of you or may not have your best interests at heart.  I'm sorry.....but this is for your own good.

      2. Uninvited Writer profile image84
        Uninvited Writerposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        There are lots of other sites that accept writers under 18. Triond.com is one of them.

        1. John Holden profile image61
          John Holdenposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Bit pointless posting, Liberate is no longer with us, banned.

          1. schoolgirlforreal profile image80
            schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I kinda figured he was gone....roll LOL

  4. Stevennix2001 profile image90
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    as far as not having friends bit goes, I can also understand where your coming from, as i don't really have any friends either.  in fact, the only friends i have are on hubpages (yes, i know that's sad), and even then they're hardly ever on anymore.  And the people that are on usually these days, I have seldom things in common with or the forums often die down once i post.  No offense to anyone reading this, as that's just based on pure observation.  Therefore, I can understand where your coming from on this too.  Look, you seem like a great guy, and I'm sorry you may hate me for this.

    as far as people calling you a freak are concerned, the best advice i can give you is this.  people often ridicule others to make themselves feel good about themselves.  however, if you just ignore them, then your taking away their power over you.  It sounds like you care a lot about what others think of you, but you want to know one of the best days of my life was?  It was the day when i stopped caring about what others thought of me.  therefore, you should stop worrying what others think of you. if someone calls you a loser, then screw them.  it's their loss.  heck, a guy in forums a few days ago made an insinuation about my intelligence or lack thereof according to him...roll

    Sure, i was mad at first, but i got over it.  heck, i haven't even thought about it since until right now while typing this.  lol  for whatever it's worth, i don't think your a freak.  anyone that calls you that is a freak.  No, you just seem like a normal kid to me.  if it makes you feel better, i can offer you some advice on how to be confident.

    a friend of mine on here taught me this a while back.  anytime your about to say something negative or mean about yourself whether it be out loud or in your mind.  stop yourself before saying that negative word and take a deep breath.  then after that, you replace that word with something positive like winner or something like that.  if you do that consistently, then you'll gradually start to believe it.  hence, you might start to become a lot more confident about yourself.  anyways, i hope that helps you out. 

    as far as your original post question goes, sex is great...but it's a lot better when it's with someone special that you love.  I'll just leave it at that.  Not that I would know, as I only had sex with someone that didn't really care about me at all.  However, that's from what I heard.

    1. schoolgirlforreal profile image80
      schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      agreed about the sex part. It sucks to have sex with people you don't care about unless there's a 100% undeniably strong -no holding back attraction...which is kinda rare smile lol

      Oh and even then you can get hurt, so it's best to have sex with someone you love and care about and vice versa, though sometimes having sex with someone you care about , but not romantically, is def an error too, cause they are just a friend. So making love to a friend AND lover in one is best...