What if your first time having sex was broadcasted online?

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   Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago

   For those that probably haven't heard about this movie, there's a film scheduled to be released called "Virginity Hit."  It's basically a comedy where this one nerdy virgin guy is dating a hot girl, and is a bit nervous about losing his virginity.  However, his friends seem to think it's a great idea to not only film his entire relationship with her, but they want to film his first time having sex and...BROADCAST IT ONLINE!  That's right you heard me.  they want to film their friend losing his virginity and put it up all over the net.  Needless to say, it causes all sorts of problems, but it looks to be a very funny movie.  My question to you all is...what if you were him?
   
   What if your friends wanted to film your first time having sex and put it up all over the net?  Would you let them?  Or would you tell them to bugger off.  Please have fun discussing this

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      brimancandyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Whomever was doing it would be breaking the law, because when I had my first sexual encounter I was a minor, and so was the person I was with.
      
      I think that person would be spending a lot of time in jail, if they were caught. I certainly wouldn't have volunteered to be videotaped online.
      
      But, as it pertains to the movie, I would say hell no from the start. Who comes up with this stuff?

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I was gonna say, the cops would def be called! No one messes with me! haha

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         Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Obviously some very sick sad sad sad sad sad sad very very sad sad sad sad sad person!

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      Dave Mathewsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      If my friend permitted me to have sex for the first time and it was with his wife, and if his wife was hot looking and wild, I might consider agreeing.   I'm just kidding I would never consider permitting such nonsense it would be sinful.

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   I'd tell where to get off and then if they didn't like that, go find new friends.

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      wow, for once we can finally agree on something cags.  personally, your a lot nicer than what i would say.  i would tell them to shove that camera where the sun don't shine..if you catch my drift. 

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         You do realize that every time you and I agree on something, you always say "wow! for once we agree on something"?
         
         

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            Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            i do?!?  i never noticed that before.  that is funny now that you mention it. 

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               schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I want to agree too!

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      luvpassionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Heartily agree...this is like that question about having sex in front of your kids. Absurd.

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         Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         well we have a lot of sick people in this world, i'll tell you that.

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            luvpassionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Where do you see all these movies...devils in elevators, people being filmed having sex. For sobbing out loud! Try watching Finding Nemo or something.

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               Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                 well lets just say that since I make it a point to see a lot of movies and review them on hubpages. I make it my business to see as many diverse genres and films as feasibly freaking possible.  Regardless if I even want to see them or not.  Besides, if that was the case where I only saw films that i want to see, then I NEVER would've wasted my time watching that stupid twilight movie earlier this year or last year's "Alvin and the chipmunks squeakquel."  (cringes)
               
               
               However, if it makes you feel better, i do plan on watching disney's "Tangled" when it comes out, as that looks kind of good, and I loved "Toy Story 3" a lot earlier this year. 
               
               besides, the only reason why I'm even bothering with "Virginity Hit" is because a lot of film critics are praising it, so i have to review it here on hubpages now.  As I make it a personal policy to review ANY movie that makes either a lot of money or it gets a lot of critical praises.  Especially if a rare film happens to get both like "Inception" or "The Dark Knight."  Not that I condone what "Virginity Hit" is about, as I think if my friends ever did that to me when i lost my virginity, i'd beat the living crap out of them.  simply because they're morons, and it's an invasion of privacy.  however, i appreciate the advice though.

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      lakeerieartistsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Yep, I agree with you too, although I would be way less polite, and wonder what I ever saw in them as friends.

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   Disturbiaposted 14 years ago

   The really sad thing about this that some idiots will go ahead and really do this, if it hasn't already been done.  I suppose at the time it would have horrified me, but these days nothing seems to shock anybody anymore.  Looking back, I'm sorry I don't have it all on video. I'd be playing it for their wives and/or girlfriends, their families, their friends, the police, my lawyers, and anybody else who might care to see just how brutal four teenages boys can be to a 12 year old girl on the bathroom floor.

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      luvpassionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      What! I hope you're speaking hypothetically Disturbia!

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hey Luvpassion,
         
         http://hubpages.com/hub/Breaking-The-Rules

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         Disturbiaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         No, I'm not speaking hypothetically, I was assulted in the foster home I was living in by four boys, one who lived there and three of his friends one day when there were no adults home.  Of course, everyone blamed me, and I wasn't even taken to see a doctor.  I was told I should have locked the bathroom door as was the house rule.  The rules were there to be followed and there are consequences when one doesn't follow the rules.  I was sent to live in another home a few months later.  I wrote a poem about it and it's in the hubs, but nobody seems to like it.

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      omg, that's terrible disturbia.  i never realized your first time was like that.  I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you.  I hope for your sake that the jerks responsible got what they deserved.

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   Disturbia, I posted your poem for them to read. I hope you don't mind.

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      luvpassionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks Cags I did...My heart soooo goes out to her, (((hugs)))

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   Rookie70posted 14 years ago

   So far, all the previous comments seem to be very light and timid in nature, but I will be bold in my answer. "You asked, "What if your friends wanted to film your first time having sex and put it up all over the net?  Would you let them?  Or would you tell them to bugger off."
   
   If it was my first time, I'd probably allow them to film me, although my confidence to offer a great entertainment performance would be marked by my lack of experience with sex. The truth is, I would have done it in the interest of excitement and the fact that I am about to get some *__!__))__
   
   Another thing about me is I was the kind of man who was very horny before my first sexual experience, and would have accepted sex from almost any woman, and that's how desperate I was. Sex in the elevator, on the roof top, in the car, anywhere. I would require also that I get a copy of the film from the friend who video taped me and the girl I was with. My very first sexual experience was with a woman who was married, surprisingly. She was one of the finest looking women, model-type female with melons that would make you salivate. She had a true model's body. However, I was unable to give her the performance she wanted. Isn't that a shame?

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      sorry to hear that.  well at least you got to have a good time, right? besides, im sure a lot guys aren't that great for their first time either.  As most of them that say they do that well their first time are typically lying about it to impress girls.   not saying all guys are like that, but most of them probably are.  anyways, thanks for sharing with us.  although i don't know if i agree with you, but hey whatever turns you on. 
      
      that's my philosophy when it comes to sex anyway.  anyways, thanks for sharing with us.

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   anonimuzzposted 14 years ago

   Never, thanks. I'd very much prefer to have all the fun by myself, without any videotaping or even voyeurs just looking around.

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   kimberlyslyricsposted 14 years ago

   It just keeps getting scarier and scarier.  Surely this is what their objective was to begin with.  Shock value and free press.  May they achieve their increase in awareness.
   
   People are giving people what they want.  I am not referring to all people.
   
   These things would not continue to be distributed if there wasn't a high demand.  So, while I am no one to judge, and far from perfect.  There are two groups here we are discussing, the posters of the act, and the viewers enjoying the viewing of each  act
   
   I suppose I understand now supply and demand is as relevant here as anything.
   
   Yo each his/her own.  Thankful for the choice of what I can view in this virtual world, where it seems anything goes
   
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   basaltbezelposted 14 years ago

   You need to be over 18 in most countries to be filmed and distributed having sex.
   
   Dunno about anyone else, but was anyone over the age of 18 when they had sex for the first time?
   
   And if they are over 18 and haven't - are you sure you want to see it?

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well i was 23 yrs old when i lost my virginity. of course, i'm kind of a shy guy in real life, so i know i would NEVER have a bunch of guys filming me having sex.  lol.  although sure, i'll joke about it sometimes, but i would never actually do it.

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   Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago

   that's true kim. you definitely speak the truth right there.

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    titobayposted 14 years ago

    First time experience is always with mixed feelings. With all the anxiety, great expectations, perhaps a bit of shyness and what have you. I personally would not want my first time experience to be a free for all show. Com'on i cherish my privacy and i'd want to respect my partner and be respected in return. I would rather relive the memory whether it was good or not so good and develop more strategies as i move on in my relationships.

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       Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       i feel the exact same way.  thanks for sharing with us.

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    camloposted 14 years ago

    Just to be daring, I would have agreed to almost anything at 17, when I lost my virginity.

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    Catering101posted 14 years ago

    His friends are definitely pervs. And the nerd guy is low to have had agreed with his friends...I just hope something good came out after all this, aside from being laid that is.

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       Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       My sentiments exactly.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 13 years ago

    I'm guessing it would be a very,very short video if they were counting on the guy.  How long did any of you last  the first time?  Unless he tries the same formula Ben Stiller tried in "Something about Mary"!
    
    If a tree falls in the forest and nobody watches, can you see it?

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    sunforgedposted 13 years ago

    hmm ..that premise was funny when American Pie did it years ago.
    
    as for real life, just last summer, a college roommate did the very same to his not openly gay roommate, the roommate that was filmed, jumped off a bridge.

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    Richieb799posted 13 years ago

    Jeez, how many more shallow pieces of *** are they going to call entertainment with this kind of story line.. we've already had this in American Pie like Sunforged said and 40 year old Virgin

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       stclairjackposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       agreed

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    Bill Manningposted 13 years ago

    Actually there are many adult paysites that push the whole point that the girls in the site are all being filmed for the first time they have sex.
    
    It's a popular concept, but it's also very fake. They use girls that look young when in fact they are over 18 or 21. I've seen many of the girls in many sites "having sex for the first time"
    
    I mean, so I was told,,,,

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