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40 year old virgin : fact or fiction?

  1. pajamazzon profile image60
    pajamazzonposted 6 years ago

    Is there such a thing as a 40 year old virgin? Fact or Myth. How can you classify one?

    1. wheelinallover profile image82
      wheelinalloverposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      From a medical standpoint yes a 40 year old virgin can exist. In my life I have met them older than that. I spent years working with the developmentally disabled, you would be surprised how many people in this category are virgins all their lives. There are many parents of these "children" who won't let a doctor check them internally or even let them do pap smears. I know a few personally.

      1. ngureco profile image88
        ngurecoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I didn't expect that answer.

        1. pajamazzon profile image60
          pajamazzonposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          me either.

      2. AgesMGMT profile image57
        AgesMGMTposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        good answer though, I have sometimes wondered how certain handicapped people would ever be able to become intimate with somebody else.  I would imagine they would need to find somebody with another similar disability.

    2. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      What difference would it make to begin with?

      Only religious folk put a value on virginity. wink

      1. Castlepaloma profile image24
        Castlepalomaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I knew on one guy and oddly he was good looking with a great fear of handling women.

        There are also mono sexual people out there. I just hope they give themselves flowers with a dine and dance

      2. Eaglekiwi profile image71
        Eaglekiwiposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        ...Hmmm such a strange answer,almost sad.

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      feifei110posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      This should not be surprising.

    4. lizzieBoo profile image65
      lizzieBooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Of course there is such a thing. Where have you been all your life? You've heard of nuns and monks I suppose? And sometimes people are just asexual. It's unusual but not weird. I envy people for whom sex is irrelevant. They're not slaves like the rest of us.

    5. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      how can you classify one?

      Easy.. he looks like this

      http://www.bigtopentertainmentonline.com/images/260_nerd_2.jpg

      1. Eaglekiwi profile image71
        Eaglekiwiposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        lol  lol  lol

        1. Castlepaloma profile image24
          Castlepalomaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          He is not so bad looking, if I was gay I might consider giving him a date, and maybe have him change some other odd thing too.

  2. skyfire profile image71
    skyfireposted 6 years ago

    So true. I came across many such folks, they're virgin because of their religious (+spiritual) beliefs.

  3. psycheskinner profile image81
    psycheskinnerposted 6 years ago

    Of course there are 40 year old virgin, there are life long virgins too.

  4. Jonathan Janco profile image74
    Jonathan Jancoposted 6 years ago

    Well, I'm a born-again virgin and not much younger than 40.

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      klarawieckposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  5. MelissaBarrett profile image60
    MelissaBarrettposted 6 years ago

    Holy Crap... I'm not even sure which comment I want to jump on first.  This could possibly be a whole night of arguing smile

    @Cagsil Yep.  Especially those of us that want to get a good dowry for our daughters.  I'm hoping for at least 4 goats for my Lily wink

    @Skyfire... And you took it what Cagsil said and ran with it? Seriously?  Okay, faith has nothing to do with many of the reasons that someone would choose to remain a virgin... the most important of which would be "I haven't found anyone I love enough to have sex with"  *sighs* I'm going to sound old here, I just know it... but, sex isn't like going to the club or hanging out... It isn't something you should just do for entertainment.  Its called intimacy for a reason.  If no other time in your life is special, the first time should be.  Special is not "Damn I'm bored... wanna do it?" Or "Hey I have known you for two weeks, and I just know I Love you" 

    @AgesMGMT Wow.  I mean really, Wow...  First of all, you wondered about this... really?  And you came to the conclusion that a disabled person can only have sex with another disabled person with the same disability?  You reached this conclusion after thought?

    So, its like a "Blind doing the blind" kinda thing?

    So what happens if a husband becomes paralyzed in an accident?  Does that mean his wife has to fling herself down a flight of stairs repeatedly so they can have sex? Or is getting drunk enough that she can't stand close enough?

    I would guess that the majority of disabled people have sex lives that are as rewarding as everyone else's.  I'm also pretty sure that they are allowed to pursue relationships outside their disability.  Unless I missed a memo somewhere... 

    @ Jonathan God for you!  Its a brave choice.

  6. mkrandhawa profile image55
    mkrandhawaposted 6 years ago

    wink)

    1. mkrandhawa profile image55
      mkrandhawaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      40 yrs i think old vergin

  7. Jonathan Janco profile image74
    Jonathan Jancoposted 6 years ago

    Glad you think its funny, Klara. not trying to make it to 40, though.

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      klarawieckposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      You're a good looking guy, Jonathan. You need to go out there and talk to girls! Go get'em kid!!!

      1. Jonathan Janco profile image74
        Jonathan Jancoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Women, Klara, not girls. Need them fully grown.
        I have to admit very few women give me the level of excitement I'm looking for. Perhaps I'm too picky, but it is a world of my own making.

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          klarawieckposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I knew a guy who preferred younger women because they had not learned the b#tch attitude. Women intheir late 20's and 30's are more prone to be set in their ways and will most likely bring you to their territory. This doesn't mean they don't care about you. Its just that you'll have to be a lot more tollerant and flexible with them if you want to get anywhere with them.

        2. Eaglekiwi profile image71
          Eaglekiwiposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Oh the naughty forties are not all they are/were cracked up to be lol

          Virgins are unique wink

  8. ubanichijioke profile image50
    ubanichijiokeposted 6 years ago

    It could be true. Mainly cos of religious belief, disability or people that have high moral standard. But, in this age of pervasion & great disregard for morals, it is hard to get...

  9. lizzieBoo profile image65
    lizzieBooposted 6 years ago

    sensible people value sex. sensible people value celibacy. I would be proud to be a life-long virgin. Why the stigma attached to not sharing your body with other people? Too much emphasis is placed on the need for sex. We have created a need.
    Thank God for parents who protect their disabled children or adults. It seems you can't rely on society for that.

  10. TiffanySprouts profile image57
    TiffanySproutsposted 6 years ago

    That's classic.

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    klarawieckposted 6 years ago

    Greek, stop posting those sexy photos of yourself! Lol

  12. Greg Sage profile image57
    Greg Sageposted 6 years ago

    Obviously you've never been to a Star Trek convention.

    1. Diane Inside profile image81
      Diane Insideposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol smile thats funny

      I'm being forces to not have sex does that make me a Virgin under protest?

 
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