I do believe that my religion has shaped my morals, As a christian I am commanded to love. I have Gay friends, Wiccan friends, and in fact will be giving the bride away at a nonchristian wedding (The Groom is a wiccan).
But I also recognize that morality is not always based on religion. It is based on common sense. If everyone were to lie, than truth would have no meaning. If everyone were to steal, than no-one would understand the meaning of property.
Ethics and morality are not limited to religious ideals. It never has. If it did, than Aesop would have not had a golden rule, jesus would never have died, mohammed would never have preached, and moses would still be with his brethren in Egypt.