Nothing happens without God's approval. God does not hate any of his creations and their outcomes. If God hates any of his creation or any outcome of his creation he is not only an imperfect creator, he is a lunatic who does not know what he is getting into. Obviously, God is perfect and he see every outcome.
God makes no accident. Now this is hard for most of you to stomach. God hates nothing he has created or its outcome.
He has allowed evil to exist and he has a Holy purpose for this.
Only through evil can you experience the Goodness of God.
Knowledge of evil will only allow you to know his Goodness and that is not good enough for God as it is incomplete. He prefers the experience of the Goodness of the Supreme GodHead.
Jesus insisted that the highest goal for everyone is to love God by loving your neighbor to the extent you love yourself. This is the highest and the grandest action you can do in your life. This is supreme and overrides any other apparent contradictions like those mentioned in Luke 14:25-26
If I have to make any sense between Luke 14:25-26 and Jesus's highest message is that you may reject wrong teaching coming from your father, mother, sister and so forth
By rejecting wrong message of your father and mother and accepting a higher truth is like being "born again" This was the path taken by Moses who discarded his Egyptian values and then accepting a higher truth or calling.
God's love for each of us is unconditional. If you don't like something turn away from it or reject it. If that happens God has just presented you an opportunity to define who you are. Self-definition is the only purpose of life. Bless that God given opportunity.