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What can i can do to regain faith in God,in a futur and if there is no hope left

  1. shania123 profile image57
    shania123posted 7 years ago

    What can i can do to regain faith in God,in a futur and if there is no hope left?

    my heart is still bleeding so much on a lost love who told me there is no hope for our love and that he will never be with me in the future?

  2. Sky321 profile image77
    Sky321posted 7 years ago

    Awe.... This would be very hard. Even though right now it feels like things will not get better you have to believe that they will.  Try to keep busy with other things, surround yourself with friends and family. One day you may say  I'm glad that didn't work out and you meet someone who is more suited for you and who you will be so much in love with. Hang in there. Sky321

  3. shania123 profile image57
    shania123posted 7 years ago

    Thanks Sky321,

    i will try to hang on, even if it is diffucult and am feeling desperate for the time being!

  4. Daniel J. Neumann profile image60
    Daniel J. Neumannposted 7 years ago

    There is a paradox out there, Shania, and goes something like this: Rule #1, You can love anybody--though some are easier to love than others. Rule #2, Most relationships don't work out. Rule #3, Love, as a construct, doesn't have to be conserved—and, thus, can take many shapes.

    Don't let the failed love of one relationship (with that stupid guy/girl) compromise your relationship with God. One outweighs the other in significance for your life.

    As Sky 321 wisely stated, you've yet to meet "the one for you." Be patient. The time in-between this fateful moment is here to contrast what you, someday, will gain. Be grateful, because life isn't over quite yet.

    I hope this helps smile

  5. Ladybythelake55 profile image57
    Ladybythelake55posted 7 years ago

    Good question I am having that same problem right now. I am mad at God, unable to serve him like I use to do, I stopped attending church regularly, and I don't know if I will ever get my faith back the faith I once had that gave me so much strength and comfort in my time of need. I pray all the time to ask for this to return to me but I am still mad at God. He has taken so many people away from me that I feel he has abandon me.

  6. Terrydfree profile image61
    Terrydfreeposted 7 years ago

    I would like to answer your question.  I understand from your question and reasoning that you dating or in a serious relationship with someone, who decided not to continue the relationship you two had together. May I suggest that your faith in God is not the issue here. God allow mankind to make their own choice. in this case your love decided not to be with you. Have you contemplated the fact that God allowed him to leave you because He (God) has created someone for you? The person you fell in love with may not have been the person God wanted you to be with.
       All in all, your Faith can be restored by reading God's Word, The Bible. May I recommend Proverbs Chapter 31:01-31. It talks a what a virtuous woman is. You Are a virtuous woman. And also remember, God is your FIRST husband. He will never leave  you nor forsake you. God's greatest love for you was when He sent His son, Jesus, to die for your sins and the sins of the world, by dying on a tree. The worst way to die in ancient times. He had rusty nails stabbed through his hands and feet and shed his blood, as the ultimate sacrifice for you. Think about it.

  7. christiansister profile image59
    christiansisterposted 7 years ago

    Dear Shania,
                           Please follow this link and read the story Proof of Life After Death, and see if you still believe that you need that other person as much as you think you do. The link is http://hubpages.com/hub/Proof-of-Life-After-Death

    Then go on my hub and read "Messages From My Mother Eve."
    and "It's All So Rubik's Cubical."

  8. Thesource profile image80
    Thesourceposted 7 years ago

    If I understand your question right, you have lost faith in God because your imperfect human lover gave up with you.

    It seem you lost faith with the one who loves you unconditionally because you were disappointed with the failure of a conditional “love”. 

    I can tell you that God’s love and involvement with you is far greater than any lover, parent or spouse can match. God’s love is true and therefore is unconditional. Forget what the religious authorities and institutions will say. They falsely proclaim God has conditions. They have no authority over God. Jesus called them “hypocrites”.

    That human lover does not love you truly because that was conditional.  God will never dump you. He has always been with you, is with you, and will be with you forever. I am not suggesting you do bad things. The bad choices you make, will still hurt you. He prefers you make the best choice for yourself.

    God talks to everyone, but only a few listen. Contrary to what others may tell you, God prefers not to communicate with us through words. Words are imperfect sound symbols, which are created by man.
    He rather talk to us by other means. One means of communication he prefers is experience. He is probably conveying to you what false love feels like in a ways no words can express.  If there is any message from him, it could be that you are bleeding over false love. This will help you understand and recognize that his love is different. It will also help you recognize real love when he sends you a true lover, a child or even a dog.

    He lives in you. He has always been with you long before your conception in this life. He will always be with you, during death, and beyond death. He understands and feels your pain and loss.

    It does not serve you well, if you lose your faith with him now, because this is the time you need his love and presence even more.

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    drmoeposted 7 years ago

    Faith in yourself leads to faith in God. The religious path teaches you to distrust yourself.  This is a Crime against humanity.  We are all God incarnated. To believe in yourself, to discover your personal value and to cherish who you are is the way to your god nature.
    Associate with positive healthy people.  Stay away from religion, it is poison.  Visit positive personal growth oriented sites like the one below.  Learn about yourself.  To thine own self be true - Shakespeare's Hamlet.

    Maurice Turmel