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If God exists, why did he put me in a relationship I'm not sure is healthy for m

  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image81
    schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years ago

    If God exists, why did he put me in a relationship I'm not sure is healthy for me, and why isn't...

    he helping me get out of it?  I prayed beforehand and it led me here. Is this my end point or is the future blooming?

  2. simeonvisser profile image83
    simeonvisserposted 7 years ago

    Because God is testing you, providing a learning experience or making you stronger. Or God does not feel like intervening. You choose whatever type of God you wish to believe in.

  3. Jokarenk profile image77
    Jokarenkposted 7 years ago

    It is not your "end pont", lean on God and seek His answers, sometimes they are right in front of us and we dont see them.  I partly agree with simeonvisser that God may be testing your faith and/or providing a learning experience for you to grow in your faith.  There is only one God and He never leaves us alone.

  4. rachellrobinson profile image80
    rachellrobinsonposted 7 years ago

    We were actually talking about this, kind of, today in Sunday School, how God sometimes answers our prayers, but not in the way we want him too. What you have to do, is remain faithful, and have hope. That way you will someday figure out why this happened, and realize that there is a purpose to it.

  5. schoolgirlforreal profile image81
    schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years ago

    ty all
    I agree it's a learning experience
    But I would like to stop making same mistakes
    I am praying and researching
    and shy but trying to get out there.

  6. Natalie's Blog profile image53
    Natalie's Blogposted 7 years ago

    I belive that everyone was born perfect and what you choose to do is up to you. I dont belive god made you go into this relationgship this is something you have chosen to do on your own. Also I belive if you really wanted this relationship to end it would have.

    im only 13 and dont fully understand everythihng i hope what i have said will help.

  7. eovery profile image59
    eoveryposted 7 years ago

    You have the freedom of choice.  He did not put you there, you choose it.  If you do not think it is good, pray about it and get out of it if you do want to be in it.   There is always another guy out there;;;sooner or later you will find him.

    I hope this helps.

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    Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago

    God didn't put you in the relationship if it's a bad one, you did that to yourself.when you got out of the will of God.

    Most things that occur is because of our own will.

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    SirDentposted 7 years ago

    Not all relationships are bad, even though they seem to be at this time.  God has put together relationships that are seemingly bad but in the end are great.  God told Hosea to find him a woman of ill repute and marry her.   Hosea did as God commanded him. 


    Relationships aren't always a bed of roses.  They require a lot of work in order to get them to work.

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    DrDeanCrosbyposted 7 years ago

    In my marriage counseling practice I periodically hear remarks like this which always upset me because they amount to people blaming God for their own bad judgment.Even worse,the people who blame God for their bad relationships almost always have violated one of the following clearly stated set of Bible instructions:

    2 Corinthians 6:14-15

    14 Stay away from people who are not followers of the Lord! Can someone who is good get along with someone who is evil? Are light and darkness the same? 15 Is Christ a friend of Satan? Can people who follow the Lord have anything in common with those who don't?

    Mark 10:11-12

    11 So He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”

    Luke 20:34-36

    34 Jesus answered and said to them, “The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage. 35 But those who are counted worthy to attain that age, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry nor are given in marriage; 36 nor can they die anymore, for they are equal to the angels and are sons of God, being sons of the resurrection.

    As far as getting out of bad relationships,the Bible has salvation guaranteeing instruction to  easily accomplish that  .

    Matthew 19:29 (New King James Version)

    29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life.

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