First of all they have all freedom to choose a life as they want. And after they complaint about not having attention.
Um, so you think having a partner who is autonomous means it is okay to ignore them?
That's .... weird.
I don't think I've ever seen a more vague thread before. What exactly are you referring to as "too much demanding"?
Women are unhappy nowdays and they expect every facility from men but don't want to be reliable.
Now, would this be all women or just the woman that you are currently fighting with?
Actually i am from conservative family and i don't have choice to have girl friend but i have responsibility of my elder sisters though i am youngest.
Apart from this i have just read series of hub of user named female-traveller.
First of all being foreigner she chased to live with poor south indian Kerala boy and blaming all of Indian men for being villian.
I have also seen many girls who get included in relation with wrong guy but after losing something want attention of descent guy/man but if they don't get attention then riot like nasty kids at home.
(Some to many) women are (have become) very self-righteous in general.
Then they wonder why guys don't like them (or are greatly irritated by them).
Poor, poor you: "i have responsibility of my elder sisters though i am youngest."
How does this work? this concept of a younger sibling, (male, I presume,) being responsible for older female siblings is completely baffling to western culture.
...completely and utterly.
I hope you will explain the problems you are having, looking after your elder sisters.
( For me, this is the most interesting aspect of your issue.)
There is too much hard life in India as far as personal space is considered.
Indians want to call them modern and traditional at same time but they don't want to leave comfort zone.
Ladies in India is taking advantage of modern life style, They have boy friends and secret affairs but at home they show up like they are girls of 18th century.
Brother has to see everything towards sisters. It does not matter the age of brother. Otherwise Questions are raised regarding masculinity of man. And girls are taking advantage of this culture being dram queen.
So no personal life left for brothers here.
In western countries parents kick out their 21 year old offspring but here it is life long duty to see after sisters otherwise it is seen as selffish stigma .
Actually now days girls have all freedom and they are more successful and earning more than boys but in addition boys have to take care of their sisters. Again no space for self and again loss in career for males here.
Warning! Ignorant advice of a Westerner:
You really should must take care of your own affairs and let them take care of theirs. If its anyones's responsibility it is your parents...maybe even your mother's!!! It is not fair to the men who would like to start a family!
And yes, after age 21, every person in America is responsible for themselves. For example, my brothers do not take care of me. I am the oldest of three brothers and I get irritated when any of them act power-trippy over me. However, we are happy to help each other whenever we can. We try very hard to be self sufficient and independent so as not to be a burden on each other or our parents. Many of our parents' generation of also quite self-sufficient well into their nineties. After all, when their children turned 21 they were free to save for the future!
You men need to free yourselves. Time for a revolution. Especially, if the girls do not appreciate it, but instead take advantage of it. Let Gandhi be your example for a peaceful revolution and use logic to convince the older people of the need to change.
PS Keep us entertained regarding your revolution, okay?
(Maybe you could write a movie script about this issue!! We Americans adore movies that take place in India!)
Thank you madam,
I wanted some advice from good person like you.
It will very helpful for me.
I take care of my personal matter and career now.
I would like to follow in hub pages, so in future i can take little advice from you.
Thank you very much.
Actually my hubs are not rated good. so i don't write more.
i can provide data so you can write hub on this issue.
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