Have you ever been "CRITICISED"

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   woolman60posted 14 years ago

   Have you been Criticised?
   Did someone criticise you?
   Was he a close person?
   Do you feel bad about yourself?
   
   If I were you..... I would have not felt bad, simply because the person who criticized you is the one who is in need of help.

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ??????

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      donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      Good grief.....where did this come from?
      
      I don't take anything personally anymore. After 25 years of critical battery in sales/customer service, I toughened up.
      
      
      
      Wish we came equipped with a FEEL BAD / DON'T FEEL BAD button!

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      No, never. I'm only a Wiccan living in a strictly Christian town with no job and an estranged relationship with my family. Nope, never been criticized in my life

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         Ghost32posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I can definitely relate to that!  Hey, my support of Sarah Palin ALONE is enough to exempt me from any and all criticism!!

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      Sab Ohposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ????????????????

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      Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Never!   

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   marcel285posted 14 years ago

   I'm occasionally accused of being nuts..It helps to realize when people say something hurtful or offensive that they are actually talking about an aspect of themselves..It's all about insecurity.

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      not necessarily.......
      
      being accused of being nuts isn't the same as being criticized.  criticism, for some, is as natural as breathing yet may not come out in a positive light

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   sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

   Criticizing sounds offensive even when its helpful. The delivery is the key: Love-Let me help you-then more love.

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   earnestshubposted 14 years ago

   Criticised?
   I have been criticised, circumcised, ostracised, merchandised,  romanticised and fantasised.
   I have been incumbent, incompetent incompatible, incorrageable, and incomplete.
   And that's on a good day!

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      SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Me too!!! Well not circumcised
      
      Clever.. Very clever

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         earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hiya Summer! A beautiful time of year and a lovely name.
         
         I am so pleased you missed "that" one!

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            SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Thank you kind sir!! Mostly I am pleased too.. However had I not missed "that" one, I definately would have had fun writing my name in the snow!!

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               earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               
               That one took me a sec. We don't see snow here!

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                  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Haha, I cab see why! I am of the opinion that that's about the coolest thing you can do with snow.. So rest assured your not missing to much in Australia. I'm heading south soon to warmer climates and oceanviews!

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   drej2522posted 14 years ago

   Summer! Yay! I like snow but don't want to live near it!

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      SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hehe!! Hi drej!! Snow is pretty about once a year for me lol. How are you?

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   tantrumposted 14 years ago

   All the time !
   And I love it !
   It means those people are aware of me, while I'm not aware of them !

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      rembrandzposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Absolutely! Tantrum
      
      It's a sign we are not ignored. which is good hey?

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   chigoiykeposted 14 years ago

   criticism sure is a vital tool for dev. but some can really frustrate, everybody will somehow face criticisms in life

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   StormRyderposted 14 years ago

   Who hasn't been criticized at some point in their lives??

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      errum fattahposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I forget all things, life is a joy ... the one who criticized u is the same like;
      
      barking dogs never bite..
      
      so feel it easy and let all emotions to get away from u...

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   K Partinposted 14 years ago

   Ha! are you kidding me? Is the Pope a German Catholic??

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    ddsurfscaposted 14 years ago

    My shrink told me that I come from THE MOST dysfunctional family he has ever encountered in his whole career as a doctor.  After that statement there isn't anything that anyone can say to me or about me that would matter.  I think some people need to be more thick skinned and don't let it bother you, who cares what someone thinks????

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