How do I get people to stop bullying me?

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   hottopicchikposted 14 years ago

   How do I get people to stop bullying me?
   
   many ppl bully me 4 my hair, glasses, and my size. how do i get them 2 stop? and dnt say straighten my hair or get contacts, ok? just dnt. there r about 5 or 6 ppl who make fun of me and i want it 2 stop, how?

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   Galadriel Arwenposted 14 years ago

   Stop responding to their jargon. Years ago I got my first job as a teacher with a 3rd grade class, there were lots of new teachers and children who enjoyed teasing the teacher. They would purchase fake vomit and put it down on the floor, imitation spiders, snakes, frogs, whoopee cushions, and the like and put them in site and await the reaction of the teacher. I knew from experience that when people get satisfaction from their efforts, they continue to do what elicited their satisfaction. So, when they put those things about in my classroom, I did not respond. They got no satisfaction and eventually stopped pestering me. Unfortunately, another teacher down the row would let out a horrific scream when she saw these items. Her scream could be heard down the row of classes causing hilarity and satisfaction among the culprits. Because she was a “great screamer”, they continued to harass her with more and more things and she never let them down. One day, I suggested she numb up. Eventually they got tired of their attempts to scare her into screaming, because they no longer got satisfaction for their effort. If you are receiving verbal abuse, consider the source and don't react to the abuse to please the abusers. You have been a willing victim for their verbal abuse and it will take some time but eventually they will stop trying to tease you because it will no longer be fun. Sometimes, mental people escalate to physical abuse. If they are inflict physical abuse report them to school authority. It is always a good idea to report abusers because they will find someone else once they stop picking on you!

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   prziloczekposted 14 years ago

   If you really want to infuriate them, have you tried smiling and laughing at them when they are horrid?
   Just thank God you are not a boy who will be beaten up if he gets it wrong.

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   darrylcrawfordposted 14 years ago

   Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? If not check out my hub on that. There are links that will help. Our minds are so powerful. Have you ever just thought about how you want to be treated? What we focus on, we attract. If you don't want to be bullied, focus on how you want to be treated. Also ignore some people. Some people need to be ignored so they can wake up and see that their actions are just actions that are displaying their own insecurities and they may in some way envy you. Be secure with yourself. Tell yourself in the mirror that you are worth being treated with respect and love everyday. Again focus on what you do want and for more encouragement please check out my hub.

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   Hanna Bambinaposted 14 years ago

   Don't respond the best thing you can do is just carry on with your life. Soon they'll see what they did wrong and stop. If they don't tell the authorities.

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   lovelaughliveposted 13 years ago

   let me put it like this.you want them to stop show them u dont give 2 sucks let them kno ur not afraid of them threating them if they dont leave u alone then u want a meeting with there parent and the school principle who cares if they call u a snitch ull feel better about it.cuss them out let them kno ur in this life they needa get over it hun.no worries be brave smart and classy.just do u and ull b happy about it in the ed of the day.girl i had lots of meeting and it worked they stoped and i moved on from it.after it all stop change ur selft im putting up beauty ideas ill help u achieve a look if u want me to send me pitures and ill give u ideas okay hunn??.

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