What about soulmates?

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   schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

   I used to believe in them, some say you have more than one
   What about people who are divorced? etc etc
   
   How do you find your soulmate?  Will they just drop out of the sky? What is you can't stand being lonely and being with "someone" is better than none?
   
   What if you had someone you loved being w/ but it ended and now you can't find someone that good? What if?

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   Cagsilposted 13 years ago

   I wouldn't go as far to say "soul" mates, but everyone can find someone.

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      saleheensblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      i don't find one

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      hmm hard to find someone when one is always on the computer!

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         saleheensblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         I guess that depends on where you look while on your computer.

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            schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            I wouldn't know where to look for the kind of guy I want!

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               Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Not much I can say to that.

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         ItsThatSimpleposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         The computer, or at least internet can be a perfect place to meet someone!

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   sofsposted 13 years ago

   Hey ... you guys are only guessing I have had mine for the last twenty years.. can never find another like him.  just the right one for me...
   
   You will find your soul drawn towards the person... no way will you miss him/her.

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      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I'm very happy for you Sofs. Always nice to hear great things like that.

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         sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Oh thanks Cags.... that is the truth! 

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            Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            You're quite welcome Sofs. My grandmother and her boyfriend spent 30 years together, before she came down with dementia and was hospitalize. He was like a grandfather to me and I was saddened when she had to leave me alone. They both have died since then and in the same year. But, they were always happy.

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      saleheensblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      hello sofs long time no see

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         sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Hi Saleheen, good to see you, I can see that you are feeling better now!!
         Had a rough day yesterday at the Extreme makeover??.. .. hey don't worry we all learning!! Take care! 

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            saleheensblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            feeling better now.
            had a rough time in hubmakeover but I never mind. Every stumble is a stair of learning. I was still happy as my information were correct though written in poor English.

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               sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Hey don't worry ... all you need to know is that you have a great attitude and that will take you much further than most!
               You are getting better and better...keep at it.. .
               Nobody not even the experts, started off as experts...all start small...cheers!

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I believe that. Bet you're not bored with each other after 20 yrs hmm?

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         sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Never a moment of boredom  my dear ... not if you work to make it fun.

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      Diane Insideposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      what if your soul is drawn to someone but you are already with someone else?  I wonder?

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Hey Diane, that is going to create a bad situation sooner or later.

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            Diane Insideposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Yeah I agree, but nontheless, it does happen.
            
            Hi Cags, I'll miss arguing with you.

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               Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               We don't argue. But, be safe on the road though.

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                  sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  A veiled threat !!
                  
                  You can't have your cake and eat it Diane ... one soul, only one soul mate,  wait until then.. or make the best of what you have!!  lol

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               schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               I love arguing w/ him too.

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                  Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  But, I don't argue with you Schoolgirl.

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                     schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     you dont? I thought we did, we used to

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                        Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        I don't argue. You might consider it arguing, but I don't.

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                           schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                           oh

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                              schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                              well then discuss it was fun

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         I am thru w/ the person I'm with. Completely. I'll only see them if I am desperately lonley....that's not a relationship. That's more like a one night thing. I am single
         and I'm going to date as many people as possible till I find someone nice.

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Diane, that happens alot, as we are "more confident" when with someone and we attract people more so.......that's what I hear.
         
         If you are drawn to someone else, you have to figure out how much you care for the person you're with, or how committed you are,
         then,
         figure out who the other person really is.........
         
         It must be a hard thing.
         
         In my situation, I don't have ANY romantic feelings left for the guy. At all
         I just want to continue being friends, but at times I get lonely and weaken though I still don't like to ....so I'm confused

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   Lifeallstar1posted 13 years ago

   I haven't found my soulmate. Guess I haven't looked but I hope he is awesome! Would suck to have a crappy soulmate. That kind of defeats the purpose. I honestly didn't think they really existed but after reading sofs post, I now have hope!

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      Jillian Barclayposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Don't give up so easy! I found my soulmate in the least likely of all places. My best friend while growing up called me and she said she had found the perfect man for me! Told her I never liked her taste in men (which I didn't) and that I was sure she was wrong! She had already given him my phone number-he called and on our first date I just knew! He was the one! We were married not long after. We had 3 children and I loved him deeply. He died unexpectedly ten years later and I miss him til this day! Don't know if two soulmates come along in one lifetime, but I know for sure that one can! Look for someone who makes you laugh, even when things look grim! If you can laugh with someone, it is the best! Our kids all have his sense of humor, so I still have him in my life! I see him everyday in our children.

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   Disturbiaposted 13 years ago

   I believe in soulmates.

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   Cheeky Girlposted 13 years ago

   You will know if someone you meet is a soul mate if they feel like you have known them all your life. They will be strangely familiar to you, and you will just get that "I know" vibe. No one can really tell you what it is, only you. Open your heart to it, and sooner or later, you will meet that special someone. Barriers won't help too much, unless you have been badly hurt before. In which case be obviously cautious. Best of luck.

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   ItsThatSimpleposted 13 years ago

   Finding a great match is difficult. Most people spend at least a few decades looking. It's a process that would be great to push a button and rush.

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   LondonGirlposted 13 years ago

   I don't believe in the whole "soul mates" idea, that there is only one person out there. It's an idea which is likely to breed discontent and unhappiness, in my view.

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