Forgiving own self or forgiving other is more important?

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  1. dghbrh profile image81
    dghbrhposted 11 years ago

    Forgiving own self or forgiving other is more important?

  2. Eunice Stuhlhofer profile image60
    Eunice Stuhlhoferposted 11 years ago

    I would say both are important but forgiving others is very important because it sets you free from bitterness and retaliation which eventually robs one of peace and joy. Again, it is human nature to forgive oneself and find valid reasons for our actions and decisions, but it is harder to do the same for others. Forgiving others is a virtue and a godly way to show strength and character. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong; the weak can never forgive (Mahatma Gandhi).

    A good question.

    1. dghbrh profile image81
      dghbrhposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Many thanks for your kind response here.

  3. penlady profile image60
    penladyposted 11 years ago

    They're both important. When you don't forgive someone, you hold hatred in your heart towards. When you don't forgive yourself, then you develop self-hate. And both can be harmful to your health - physically and mentally.

    It's not a good way to live whatsoever.

    1. dghbrh profile image81
      dghbrhposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you.

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    Rayne123posted 11 years ago

    They are both important, however I think to forgive others you must forgive yourself first.

    Its like being strong, you cant be there for someone unless you are strong yourself.

    However I have to agree that it is unhealthy for anyone to hold this hatred/guilt in.

    Others that do not forgive you, obviously think they did nothing wrong and have not forgave themselves. This proves that you are a much better person.

    Its like walking away from the argument. If you stay you add fuel to the fire. So if you do not forgive yourself your guilt adds fuel to the fire and leaves a miserable feeling inside.

    1. dghbrh profile image81
      dghbrhposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Many thanks for your insightful reply here. I cant agree more. Have a nice day ahead.

 
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