Difficult as it may be for so many people to imagine... Men and women are individuals. All women don't think alike, and I haven't yet met the man who thinks exactly the same way as every other man thinks (and/or has ever thought). Neither have I yet met another woman who thinks "all the same way" that I do. I've met both women and met who think the same way I do in some ways (and with some people, maybe even a lot of ways); but when all is said and done we're all individuals.
One of the biggest problems I've had throughout my life has been that too many people (both men and women) have it in their head how a woman thinks; and then when I express different thinking from that they're thrown off (and then think that I'm the one being "hard to understand" or "different"!).
So, my answer to this question is, "no". Nobody knows how anyone else thinks unless the other person says what he thinks and is honest when he (or she) says it. The best way to know what someone else thinks is to ask them. If there's something about what they say that someone else doesn't understand, ask them to clarify or explain why they think what they do.
A very unfortunate and widespread problem is that so many people in this world think they know what other people think or "really mean" when they say something. Not recognizing that we cannot read other people's minds or know what they're thinking amounts to not seeing them as separate individuals with their own minds. Not seeing and/or respecting other people as individuals with individual thoughts/feelings is described as "emotional abuse" by experts. (One author who has several YouTube videos on the subject is Patricia Evans.)
I don't mean to be inappropriately "heavy" in answering a simple HP question (that might have been fairly "innocent" and "harmless" in a lot of ways); but this is such a widespread problem (and probably the reason so many relationships of all kinds fail/end), I think it's something people need to start talking more about (and for all I know, the question-asker may have been hoping people would come on here and say the same kind of stuff that I have :/ ).