Basically stating if a guy/ girl cheats on you and your costanly reminded of it but you told he/she that you forgave them and you keep constanly thinking of it and it makes you angry have you truly forgiven them?
If you're still with the person and constantly thinking about it or having fights, you haven't forgiven. You're better off cutting your losses and moving on, then you will start your journey of forgiving the person and before you know it you won't think about it.
If it comes to mind you won't pay attention to it and realize you're better off and it was their loss.
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