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   greeneyes1982posted 14 years ago

   Do you believe there is  soul mate for everyone?? One person you are MEANT to share the rest of your life with?

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      lorlie6posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I don't know about everyone, but I have been with my soul mate for 22 years now and it's a blast.  I adore the guy.  We have an amazing history together that is priceless!

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         yeah, thats a great story. Congrats btw

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      vox vocisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I believe there is a soul mate for some people but not for all! Many people aren't capable to love deeply and many aren't capable at all. That's why most marriages last a lifetime because of the habit and not because people are soul mates. Having a soul mate is a gift from God so I think one has to pray for having one and deserve one with good deeds.

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      wsp2469posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      If there IS I don't think everyone finds him/her.

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      susanlangposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Mark, my one and only. 25 years inlove and still on our honeymoon!  Love you sweetheart!

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   Welcome to hubpages greeneyes! and yes I do believe in soulmates..I have married mine and soulmates don't just go for humans. I have found soulmates in friends and in pets as well

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      good point!...soulmate may not always be romantic. 

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         greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks for your post... I am positive I found mine and to be honest it has been really creepy sort of lol. I mean when you play battle ship and put your boats and I mean ALL of them in the same spot with the same idea THAT is where it got creepy LOL. But I know what you mean about animals to cus I KNOW my cat understands me lol.

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            Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            it may be creepy but in a way it is a good sort of creepy. glad you have found yours. and yep my cats understand me too gotta love it hehe

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            congrats on both counts. Its good to be understood.  maybe write a hub about finding your love?

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      Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You said it all. 

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         Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         thank you Hokey

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   i used too
   now i think its more like, finding the right person at the right time, and then sticking with it.

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   there is a Gaelic saying for soul mate and soul friend...Anam Cara. My husband and I have that on our wedding bands.

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      greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      nice.. so what do you think on something here. This man and I have been talking for some time now and every single day we will be talking about something and we will say the same EXACT thing at the same exact time!! This has happened so much that we both sort of ignore it now when it does and it is still happening.. But we played a game of battleship and that is when I really started gettin creeped out. I kept winning over and over again so we played one more game and this time I thought it would be funny to clump all of my boats together in one spot on the board and put my little tiny one in my upper left corner. We start playing and I told him wait till u see where all my boats are and I laughed and him having the same sense of humor as me he laughed and said I know right I did the same thing. So we start playing and come to find out he put all his boats in one spot to in the same spot of the board and put his little boat in the top right corner!!! EVERYTHING that we do and say feels like hes a mirror image of me!! I completely freaked out after that because it is so much to digest for me.

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         my parents once bought each other the same stupid card for thier anniversary
         my husband always knows things before I say them
         dont be creeped out. 

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         Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         whoa that is creepy...you guys share a brain just kidding but that is totally cool that you guys have the same thoughts and the same ideas. it makes love even more special.

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            greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I just dunno lol. I mean its really sweet and all but it was really a lot to digest for me. Because the sort of stuff I figured only happened in movies. I just dunno if I was ready for it yet lol

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               myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               (((hey green shift to 'chronological' view of the forums, that way we can tell who you're replying to! )))

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                  greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  it is I didnt pick quote when i responded

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               Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Oh my dear green eyes we are never ready for when love comes into ur lives, creepy and all. when it comes it will come not on our time but on love's time and that will be whenever love believes we are ready for love.

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   oh look crazd!!!! another one gets the midnight cat stares!!  thats awesome @ your wedding bands.

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   I like the idea of 'soul mate', just not the part about spending the 'rest' of my life with him!

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      awwww mow....you KNOW how I really feel.....lets try to be good for the new guy..   

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         greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I will think of writing a hub on it.. I also am gonna do one on men and women and toilet seats!!

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            HA!!!  I will read that.  Ive been thinking about it too...but Im lazy

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            Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            toilet seat wars!
            
            and yea definitely write one about your experiences..it's great to write those becaues they give ppl hope

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               greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

               well I agree with men on that one.. I mean seriously men shouldnt have to put it down hence that means SHARING the seat. after all we leave it down for them to have to put up so why not them leave it up? only makes it fair . It is actually inspired by my "other half" if you will

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                  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  I can see it from both sides...of course having fallen in a few times because the seat was up...and it was dark and I was blind because of no contacts in I like it being down better

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                     Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     im the only one who cleans the bathroom n hubby wears contacts.... I leave it up for him

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                        Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        aaaa Justine you are too nice!

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                           Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           hahaha. nice has nothing to do with it....its real messy if i leave the seat down. I know to check before i sit, falling in SUCKS.  haha

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         no choice darling....! ok...will be good now...though cracks often show!

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            ouch...im trying so hard to not rain on everybodies parade.....lets go over to the tribe or somethinng..
            xo

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   woohoo justine we aren't alone ooo the kitty version of Midnight Stares is horrible and thanks it was by chance I was lookin gin my favoreite magazine shopirish and there they were...fate? chance? who knows but they were definitely meant for us

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      thats cool. 

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   BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 14 years ago

   I absolutely believe there is a soulmate for everyone. Out of the billions of people in this world, there has to be at least one made specifically for me. The ultimate love story, right?

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   wychicposted 14 years ago

   Yes, I think there is a soul mate for everyone, but a large percentage of people never find them because they settled before they found the right one, or just never happened to be in the right place at the right time. I almost missed mine; I married a guy who was far from my ideal, because I thought my "perfect man" couldn't possibly exist and it was asking too much for anyone to be that person who mixes perfectly with me. It turns out my perfect man DID indeed exist, and thankfully he was there waiting when I left my first marriage...it doesn't seem to work out like that very often.

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    I hope so.

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    StormRyderposted 14 years ago

    It's possible..My parents met when they were in 6th grade and say they knew then they would be together someday..They have been married for 24 years now.

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    yep a bath I don't want to have!

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       Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       

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    Justine76posted 14 years ago

    My official answer to the OP
    Yes, I believe in soul mates. Unfortunately, the simple fact of 'finishing each others sentences' does not equal magic. Relationships are work and require constant attention on both sides. Just cuz someone is your soulmate doesnt mean they wont check out, one day. And I think everybody has more then one. Timing is a factor.

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       greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       no we arent finishing sentences... we are SAYING the same EXACT sentence at the same EXACT time EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! so much so that is has become the "norm" for us=)

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          its really cool. all i meant was...most likely you ARE meant for each other, but that fact alone wont make it work. Its an amazing gift to have found each other, never take it for granted.

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             greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             i always said if i ever found HIM that i am sure i will think... ok now what am i going to do with him?? ROFL

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                Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                play battleship?
                i had a good friend once. we used to play 'Guess Who' and she would always guess who I was within 2 guesses, no questions asked. I DO know what you mean about creepy. Have a good Valentines Day!

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    do what you only can do: love him for him

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       greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I feel deep down to the depths of my soul that I do.... Theres major change going on inside of me I prayed for this to happen someday I just figured i would be a good 43 yrs old by then lol

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          awww. see thats good?

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          okay gotta ask how old r u?

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             greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             im 27=)

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                Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                aaaa so love has decided to grace you with its presence earlier than you had thought.

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                   greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   im sure of it looks like i wont be walking this earth alone... and most importantly it is with someone who SEES how I do.. and LOVES GOD like I do... so many important things to me and he is right in front of my face I think I have calmed down somewhat since the game we played lol. Im seeing it for what it is and am not feeling like this is impossible or some sort of dream. I am so happy!!

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                      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        never turn your back on a chance of happiness, even if your scared. Congrats again.

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                         greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         ty very much!

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             confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Love that you have irish written on your wedding ring. I love the Irish language. Are you related to any Irish?
             And yes there is a soul mate for everyone and when you find that person you just know.It cant be described!

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                Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                yep on my mom side her great great grandpa left Ireland because of the potato depression. so I have Irish running through my veins and my hubby is an Scot-Irish

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                   confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   What part?? Its quite a small country hahaha:)

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                      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      truthfully no idea...she didn't know her great great grandpa and couldn't get any info out of her mom

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                         confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         pitty:( It was probably Kerry that was hit worse with the blight.
                         At least you can be proud to have Irish blood

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                greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                exactly!!! cant be described and most people wont understand even if you try to!! but its like no one else on the planet exists! but yet almost like they can see into our souls when we talk... Im not even going to try to explain it because there really isnt a way to its more of an intuition and feeling and just KNOWING

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                   confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Yea you just know there the one. No one can describe it its different for everyone!

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    if there isn't I got lucky and met mine-I say yes.

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       lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       and welcome greeneyes

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    peptalkposted 14 years ago

    I think that there is such a thing as soul mates and I would love to find mine.

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    I am glad you are now seeing this love as it is meant to be seen. a person to share your life with. and i hope he thinks of it in the same light as you do.

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       greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       oh he does most definately!! in fact hes asking me what im waiting for right now lol. not entirely sure what hes asking there but I THINK I have some sort of idea

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          And what is your idea of what he is asking? Me I think it is relationship wise he is asking.

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             greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             im thinking the same thing.. he says he knows exactly what is happening here and he has been praying for me before i ever came into his life. hes been single for 5 yrs waiting for the right person he has ultimately left everything up to God.. i dunno if anyone believe in God here but that isnt my topic here. He said he knows for a fact that Gad brought me to him and I feel the same. He is telling me that he knows what I know and I know what he knws and that is that we are meant for eachother and that I dont have to wait any more

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    here is a song for you and he to listen to. it means a lot to me and my husband as well.
    
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZp6pmgbZyU

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       greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       thank you that is so sweet!!

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          you are very welcome.

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             greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             so far our fav song has been by savage Garden lol I know old school but to the moon and back has been one we both love
             
             http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uhdajt0C1sE

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    you might be right CB could have been Kerry. never know and truthfully I don't know if I am Irish but I do say I am Irish since my family is..I'm adopted

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       confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Your Irish in my books

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Guiness for everyone!! 

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             Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             this is one Irish who DOESN'T like Guiness

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                confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                I would have to agree!!!!!

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    Savage Garden rocks! one of my fav bands too old school or not hehehe
    
    love To the moon and back and also Truly Madly Deeply is another good one

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       peptalkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       "I want you' was always my favorite

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          yep...soo many good songs

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       greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       i love TMD... but for him he said it makes him kinda sad a little lol he is one of those men who are in touch with himself not afraid to express emotion and I LOVE IT!!

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          greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          i also like i knew i loved u before i met you AWESOME song!!

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             Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             yep another classic

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          aaa yea my hubby is like that too...at times though when he does get too emotional it does get on my nerves shhh don't tell him I said that

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             greeneyes1982posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             lol i wont.. but im gonna go for now all im spending time with him and we are listening to sermons and listening to worship music together have a wonderful day all!!!

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                Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                tell him a hubber named Crazdwriter says hi! hehehe and listen to that song with him. it's a great one and it talks about God. GREAT song

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    thanks CB

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       confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Your welcome...
       "I want you" love that song. Prob sound stupid ha but who is TMD?

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          peptalkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          The first time I heard this song was at my step-sister's house.
          
          The chika-chika-cherry-cola part had me right off!

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             Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             have you ever tried to lipsync to that song. PHEW your mouth gets a work out. or even singing...I did the whole lipsynicing thing in my bedrooms when I was kid...loved doing that song

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                peptalkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                It is one of the hardest!  Try Billy Joel's 'We Didn't Start the Fire'

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                   confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   I have did that or should I say attempted one night when I had one to many hahaha

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    TMD means Truly Madly Deeply by Savage Garden

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       confused barbieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       makes sense haha I can just blame that on my blonde hair ha
       I lovethat song true classic!

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    100% absolutely.If you find that one truly special person make sure you don't let them slip away. I lost mine, and he truly was my soul mate. Sure I miss him, but after the grief is gone, you go on with life a richer person, for having experienced a great highlight in your life, that adds to your great book of life and loving.

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    Okay I am off now too peeps...I have to run out and get a couple of things from Target. have fun chatting everyone

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    that's okay peptalk I'll stick to Savagen Garden

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       peptalkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       lol.... I'm in agreement there

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8b0vGZFE … re=related
    Oh god this cannot describe your soul mate more...

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       Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       okay last post LOVE LOVE LOVE that song, blondepoet. Good post!

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       peptalkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       That's it!  WOW!!!!!

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Oh god I want this so much

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    greeneyes1982posted 14 years ago

    ok so now we know we were brought together for sure but WHY is what we are trying to figure out now....

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    greeneyes1982posted 14 years ago

    i am wondering something now.. i need help here. we have a bond and now lately i keep feeling a lot of heart ache and i dunno why. it feels like it does after a break up w someone.. maybe its cus he loves so far way i dunno. a little advice pls and pls read my other posts so u know where im coming from before you respond thanks.

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