If you could change one day...

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   Joelle Burnetteposted 13 years ago

   If you could change one day, one moment, one action, what would it be and why? Or at least, what outcome would you prefer?
   
   But, if you are a believer in fate (not faith), should you change that time (as bad as it seems), or would it make things worse by changing it?

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      awareposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      while married my now x wife had a abortion without my consent or knowledge she killed what would have been my 3rd child.. her reason for doing so ? she wanted a divorce not another child. i wanted both .id have given her everything in the divorce .in exchange for the child.i have 2 grown sons . they are my pride and joy . they are the only truly good things i have accomplished in this life.i so wish id at least had the chance to change her mind. that day that moment that action is why im against pro choice. i think its a dang good reason too.

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   Lady_Eposted 13 years ago

   Can't think of one - there are too many.

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   mtsi1098posted 13 years ago

   I would not change a thing...

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      Paradise7posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Would you not?  That's lucky.

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         mtsi1098posted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Not to imply all days have been good but I believe in taking bad and good and learning from both

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   prettydarkhorseposted 13 years ago

   one day one moment, october 25, 1991,I was forced to marry by my parents when I was 21.

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   Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

   The day I got married

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   tantrumposted 13 years ago

   I wouldn't change anything. If so, I wouldn't be the person that I'm today. One learns from experiences. Good or bad.
   I like the way I am, accepting me with all my faults and virtues, which makes me unique.

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   easy1posted 13 years ago

   I wouldn't change a thing and by the way today is my birthday!!!.

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      tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!

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         easy1posted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks Tantrum that just made my day.

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            tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            

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      prettydarkhorseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      happy birthday easy1! more healthful years!!!here is my incense and feng shei blessins for you

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      Sandy Thornposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Happy birthday from another fellow Scorpio! (mine was yesterday)
      
      While I believe all of the bad choices I've made have resulted in my learning something important, I would change one of them.  When I got divorced, I let my ex off the hook financially and he took advantage of that, and my kids suffered for it.  I would hold him accountable for EVERYTHING if I could do it over again.

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         tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!

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         Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Put your tail down did ya?

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            Sandy Thornposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            LOL!  That I did.

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      dejajolieposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Happy Birthday!

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   Pearldiverposted 13 years ago

   Happy Birthday Easy Scorpio...... From a Not-So-Ezi Scorp.

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      tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Scorpio here too !!
      november 5

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         Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         I hadn't forgotten Tantrum
         Have the fireworks ready

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            tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            didn't know you knew !!
            when it's yours ?

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               Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               November NT

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   GeneralHowitzerposted 13 years ago

   I'll change for the better and one of 'em is hehehe behaving well in the forums, I got entangled with some kinks lately and I regret it very much hehehe...

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    Paradise7posted 13 years ago

    Happy Birthday, easy!
    
    Love Tantrum's smileys.
    
    If I could change one day...I would have helped my sister, or tried to,  instead of being too afraid to, when we were kids.

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    easy1posted 13 years ago

    Thanks Pearldiver and thanks paradise7 for your kind words.

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    Jane Dee Summersposted 13 years ago

    Dear JB, I would like to change this past Thursday when the vet had to put down our little black cat called Tinkerbell.
    
    I'm going to miss a little wet nose pushing at my elbow in the morning to wake me up, and trying to pull back the covers to get into my bed.

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       Sandy Thornposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Aw, sorry to hear that.  We lost Twinkle, our 14-year-old Himalayan last year.  It's hard to let them go.

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    Cagsilposted 13 years ago

    In my case....there isn't one.
    
    Just in the fact----if you chould change one day?
    
    Living in the past, does not allow you to live in the present or see the future.
    
    If you regret anything you've done, it will weigh you down and you'll be unable to move forward.

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    donotfearposted 13 years ago

    I would have changed my REACTION to many things. But one particular thing, it would be hard to determine.

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    Stacie Lposted 13 years ago

    The day I bought my last house and property.
    2006 seemed like a good time to invest in property.UGH!!
    (banging head against wall).
    

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    dejajolieposted 13 years ago

    I probably should change a few things,  but being where I am today, I wouldn't change a thing.

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    trish1048posted 13 years ago

    The day my hubby died at age 36.

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