im not really that picky when it comes to women. i just want a girl that openly accepts AND understands me completely for who i am, and doesn't judge me like others have in the past. that's all i ask for, as i don't think that's unreasonable to ask. however, in real life, it seems like that is too much to ask for. oh well. what can you do? besides, as a friend of mine once told me, happiness comes from within. thus, im blessed in many other ways, even if a girl does shoot me down. as you shouldn't base your life on the things you don't have, but rather focus on the things that you do have. if that makes any sense or not to you folks. 