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Someone That needs a help / advice!

  1. richgerman profile image49
    richgermanposted 9 years ago

    i got a message to my email today which she need an advice for her problem.

    This is her problem:

    She was into the relationship with her boyfriend for a couple of months, before she have no feelings for this man and she just going out for that guy with no much attraction.  as days passed by her feelings was developed and she said she think she was inlove for then. they frequently get fought on call and also if that guy couldn't  greet her in a certain day maybe she was jealous. SHe decided to break up which she thought that was the best decision she could ever made, but her problem now she is inlove to that guy and she said she could not get off all the memories on her mind.

    anyone could give some comments to this. collective ideas is better than one idea:)

    1. terenceyap07 profile image60
      terenceyap07posted 9 years ago in reply to this

      An email is a private correspondance. Don't you think that she would want to keep the details of her problem "private", my friend?

      1. richgerman profile image49
        richgermanposted 9 years ago in reply to this

        my dear friend terence yeah i know its a private message thats why i told you i have a message from my email. and i think nothing is bad when it comes to the privacy since i didnt mentioned the name of the person.

        1. terenceyap07 profile image60
          terenceyap07posted 9 years ago in reply to this

          I ask that you consider these 3 points before we go on any further:

          1.   Professional etiquette.

          2.   Code of Ethics.

          3.   Common decency.

          You, as a professional personal trainer, should be well versed in these 3 points.

          And by the way, I did not recieve a reply with regards as to why you had copied, word for word, someone else's script on "Karma" without giving any credit to the original writer. This is a discourtesy known as "plagiarism".

  2. balisunset profile image61
    balisunsetposted 9 years ago

    I think the problem is on communication

    she should tell him all about her feeling, wants and needs
    and she also need to hear all his thought

    love is created by God not to be forgotten

  3. omarabid profile image59
    omarabidposted 9 years ago

    no i don't think, why you should really believe what she saying !

    1. terenceyap07 profile image60
      terenceyap07posted 9 years ago in reply to this

      You've got a good point there, my friend....

      1. richgerman profile image49
        richgermanposted 9 years ago in reply to this

        terence whats your problem here? can you mind your own business? or maybe your the one getting an attention here?

        1. terenceyap07 profile image60
          terenceyap07posted 9 years ago in reply to this

          It seems strange to me that you ask me to mind my own business when you publicize this person's problem in this forum.

          Don't you think that you should not be minding her business by publicizng it for everyone to read?

          I believe that we should respect the privacy of those that confide in us.

          If you really don't like people minding your business, then you would do well not to post comments in forum pages.

          Forum pages are where people are invited to mind the business of others. This is why everyone is allowed to post comments.

          1. ProCW profile image84
            ProCWposted 9 years ago in reply to this

            Can we give a thumbs up in the forum?

            smile

            ProCW

          2. jyuva profile image35
            jyuvaposted 9 years ago in reply to this

            I think you are right forums for everybody to involve big_smile

  4. spryte profile image87
    spryteposted 9 years ago

    Rich...

    Tell your friend this...

    It took time to fall in love with this man...and it will take time to fall out of love.  Nobody likes to hear that sort of advice because there's this illusion that we have control over our hearts.  We simply don't.  When I've been in this situation, at first the memories were brutally painful...and this holds true for all that is loved and lost.  Eventually, the pain fades and we find ourselves immersed in new experiences and new loves.  Bittersweet...but there you have it.  There is no band-aid or quick fix medication for a this kind of sadness.

    spryte

    1. richgerman profile image49
      richgermanposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      thanks for your message spryte.. i just want some more comments on the situation not criticism of someone post:( cause i really believe no one has the possession to judge the person unless that person is a doer....


      have a great day to you!

  5. GK16 profile image61
    GK16posted 9 years ago

    neutral

  6. Mark Knowles profile image59
    Mark Knowlesposted 9 years ago

    brokegerman -

    you seem to be forgetting we have all seen you start a bunch of spam threads using copied work that were designed to promote yourself.

    Remember the boy who cried wolf? Why on earth would we take you seriously now?

    1. ProCW profile image84
      ProCWposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      Hey... when's Maddie getting back so she can delete stuff?

      smile

      1. funride profile image73
        funrideposted 9 years ago in reply to this

        Why!? This is fun big_smile.

 
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