How do I get my crush that I never, ever talk to, to notice me?

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  1. profile image61
    0.crappy.lifeposted 9 years ago

    How do I get my crush that I never, ever talk to, to notice me?

    I do have classes with him, yet I don't talk to him.
    What should I do to get him to notice me?

  2. profile image52
    100 percent realposted 9 years ago

    try flirtin be nice o him flip of the hair smile at him for no reason try asking him o partner up with you start conversations with him dat he likes if all else fails take a chance and tell em u like em or get a friend to do it when your not around

  3. Silver Poet profile image77
    Silver Poetposted 9 years ago

    The truth is that sometimes the persons we appreciate don't appreciate us in return.

    The best advice is to accept the fact that he may not ever notice you.  There are a few things you can do to help the situation, however.  You should always look your best, smile, be courteous to all whether he's watching or not, and remember that you are unique and that there's no one in this world who's going to be exactly like you.  You deserve to be treated like a princess for who you are, and if he's not willing to do that then he doesn't deserve you.

    Trying to push the issue or get him to talk to you when he doesn't want to may backfire and have the opposite result.  If he does ever notice you or make friends with you, don't gush.  Don't act TOO happy like you've won the lottery.  Instead try to stay cool and calm, and let him make the effort to get to know you instead of it being the other way around.  If he asks you on a date, don't instantly agree.  Say that you'll have to check your schedule, and could he get back to you on that.  Trust me, if you're too available you won't be as respected as if you play like you're a little bit hard to get.

  4. Pollyannalana profile image86
    Pollyannalanaposted 9 years ago

    I agree with just being yourself or look at yourself and ask who do I want to be? If you are very shy as I always was, start getting involved and taking part. Who notices a fly on the wall, but if it lands on the table everyone is after it, lol, bad example? But you get my drift?

  5. ktps profile image59
    ktpsposted 9 years ago

    go places that he goes . flirt with him talk more do something!

    1. Ramona Chattom profile image59
      Ramona Chattomposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      If you follow him constantly, then you'll like you're thirsty. Only the talking part will work. No way the flirting!

  6. profile image48
    EyeKnowposted 9 years ago

    Find the nerve and ask simple questions that you would ask a FRIEND - close your eyes, pretend this person is a FRIEND and not the person you have a crush on.  Talk about everyday life - it's not about appreciating you as much as getting to know you as a fun, friendly person that hopefully has some common interests.   
    If you don't have common interests, the crush, if it became a relationship wouldn't last anyway.
    So - you can't believe what my cat did this morning?  What's your favorite pizza place? 
    Just start a conversation!

  7. 01i profile image81
    01iposted 9 years ago

    You answered this question yourself. If you want to be noticed by someone you never talk to. Talk to them.

  8. lindagoffigan profile image60
    lindagoffiganposted 9 years ago

    One thing you can do is to lose interest in them.  Reverse your interest may make them sit up and take notice.  It is worth a try as it seems that your crush "never, ever talk to or notice you."

    1. Ramona Chattom profile image59
      Ramona Chattomposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      It kinda makes sense.

  9. profile image48
    SCBOYposted 9 years ago

    bring him a sandwhich. the way to a mans heart is through his stomach... enjoy

  10. profile image49
    SexyFangposted 9 years ago

    Well if you really like him, like 100% like him then all you have to do is go up to him and tell him how you feel. When i was 13 which was only a year ago lol, there was this sexy guy i really like and i wanted him to notice me so much but them i had some idea which popped into my head and it was I SHOULD GO UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I FEEL. Anyways, i did that and we went to the disco together and he kissed me. All you have to do is go up to him and tell him how you feel. Then he'll take you on a date.

    1. Ramona Chattom profile image59
      Ramona Chattomposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      But what if she is too shy to do such a thing?

  11. Ramona Chattom profile image59
    Ramona Chattomposted 3 years ago

    Be confident and smile and go up and talk to him. In general just be really nice and sweet to him. It worked for me.


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