If you were a strict parent, what were the benefits of your parenting style in terms of your
The benefits of my strict parenting style include 4 highly successful and wonderful loving children, 9 highly successful and wonderful loving grandchildren, and 2 soon to be highly successful and wonderful loving great-grandchildren.
I am sure that through this same strict parenting effort, many highly successful and wonderful loving heirs will be forthcoming.
Providing a solid strict parenting example through truthful praise and loving criticism properly builds the children’s talents and abilities. This structure restricts damaging interference. Through this positive parenting it promotes better academic and emotional outcomes for the child.
Focus in my strict parenting effort is based on the needs of advancement for the child through supportive skill and knowledge training. This includes continual interaction with the child concerning all academic, psyche, and social agendas. Through this intimate transfer the child advances greatly as they energize self-motivation.
"Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved." William Jennings Bryan
"It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves." William Shakespeare
"Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work." Aristotle
"The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand." Vince Lombardi
"Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life." Confucius
"Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." Aristotle
"We must continually seek to expand our wisdom daily during our lifetime. Then when we meet our Lord, he shall say-Well done my child." tbHistorian
Education is number one
Love the child
Communication is important to know what your child is up to
Show interest in a child's life
My daughter is now 28, my son is 22. Compared to their peers, I was relatively strict on some issues. My wife and I provided a standard or code of conduct. If you provide guidelines and they are ignored or circumvented, there has to be consequences. None of our requirements were unreasonable, but I leave little latitude for dishonesty, disrespect or disobedience. They were praised when they did well, and corrected when they willfully disregarded the guidelines with which they were provided. They learned to be well-socialized, considerate, people with respect for limits on behavior. They learned respect for authority. Yes, they are bright and they were occasionally mischievous. My wife and I parented as a team, discussed many issues to remain consistent with each other and with our children. My wife was the nurturing parent, and I was the disciplinarian. Those roles came naturally; I have a military background, my wife is an excellent nurse (RN). I lived the conduct I expected and was not above the rules. Today, I am thankful for my children, close to them, and proud of them.
by Janis Leslie Evans 5 years ago
What parenting style were you raised under and what were the effects?Authoritative - balanced in nuturing, limit-setting, and boundaries; warm and verbally engaging.Authoritarian - strict rules and limit-setting, high expectations, cold.Indulgent - lenient, overly involved and nurturing, no rules...
by Ruben Rivera 7 years ago
Yes my first baby and obviously some anxiety kicked in already. I tell my wife I will raise him/her (don't know gender yet) military/Marine Corps style hehe. I guess that could backfire.What is your style? are you the kind "my way or the highway" or do you allow any discussion? or a...
by wordsscriber 7 years ago
What parenting style is most effective?
by Grace Marguerite Williams 4 years ago
that is totally false. It is the A students who are the MOST SUCCESSFUL in life. They have more opportunities to further their education and to succeed than either B or C students. A students are more likely to attend graduate, law, and/or medical school than either B or C...
by Grace Marguerite Williams 4 years ago
raising and instilling parameters in their children? Why? Why not?
by Le_patty 11 months ago
Should Parents be their children friends, or just a parent?When does friendship with your children takes away your parenthood?
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|