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Why do couple ends on divorce?

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    Yey Rocaberteposted 11 months ago

    Why do couple ends on divorce?

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    Tusitala Tomposted 11 months ago

    Could be because they blame their own negative emotional reactions to the circumstances around their relationship on the other partner.  This becomes so habitual, and so un-examined, that they actually believe that the other person is causing their unhappiness rather than their own thinking.   It is a case of our ego-mind needing stimulation and drama and it (the ego) believing that without that stimulation it will die.

    The challenge is, as usual, "Know thyself."  Unfortunately, nearly everyone in the world still believes they are their thoughts and their attendant emotions.   Until that fundamental mistake is realized the drama in relationships will continue.

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    Yey Rocaberteposted 11 months ago

    Yes its true but you know I am just saddened about how people change their feelings in time..They are inlove today tomorrow they are enemies:(

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    Coffeequeeenposted 11 months ago

    Yes, it is sad how couples can end up hating each other.  But there could be any number of reasons why they divorce - boredom, affairs, just simply growing apart.  Thankfully it's still good to hear of many couples who are still happily married 50+ years later.

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      Yey Rocaberteposted 11 months agoin reply to this

      Sad but all you have said is true.Its hard to find someone who will grow old with you.Treat you the way they first met you.Anyone can change.

 
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