girlfriend / boyfriend

  1. Mathi P profile image58
    Mathi Pposted 9 years ago

    do you think its wrong to have a boyfriend / girlfrind for an adult?

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  2. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image58
    VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 9 years ago

    Yes. It is wrong for girls to have boys and vice-versa.  Girls may have girlfriends and vice-versa.  Because you may be from a good breed;  he may be from some other breed.  There is a risk of getting married between opp. friends.  Marriage is to bring an offspring and continue our tradition and culture.  If we allow cross marriages, in a short time, we will lose our special cultural identity.  Our Tamil forefathers did love-marriages. But there was no religion, caste or creed or religion at that time.  If you think cross marriages will help to eradicate them, you will be at a fools' paradise.  The opp. is keen to establish their identity.