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   Charluposted 11 years ago

   If you could change one bad habit your spouse has, but give up one of your own what would they be?
   
   Smoking, shopping, throwing clothes on the floor, leaving the toilet seat up, going out with the guys, never on time, or is it something a little more complicated?  What would they want you to give up and would you be willing to make the sacrifice?

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   mindyjgirlposted 11 years ago

   Coming home at a decent time. I would be willing to give up shopping for expensive  clothes & handbags, but not before Christmas.

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   Mom Katposted 11 years ago

   I would love to wave a wand that would make him stop being such a narcissist.  In return, I would make it a point to pick up my clutter.
   I have my little piles of clutter here & there, which I always intend to get to, but never seem to... it drives him bonkers!
   
   So yeah, I think that would be a good trade.

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   Relationshipcposted 11 years ago

   Honestly it is more of a verbal thing, I would want my husband to stop saying "Ummmmmmmmmmm" before every answer and just answer my question quickly. Sometimes I have even moved on to another thought by the time he answers. I would be willing to give up my complaining about a certain family member.

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   jellygatorposted 11 years ago

   If I could change one thing about him, I wouldn't change a thing.
   
   I'd change one or two things about me, though.

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   DDEposted 11 years ago

   I wish he would stop smoking  and I am quite an organised person so have nothing to trade for.

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   soconfidentposted 11 years ago

   I wish she would stop playing these silly little cat and mouse games. Feel like I'm Tom and she's Jerry.

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   algarveviewposted 11 years ago

   Well, I guess his bad habit would be arriving late all the time and I'm not talking about 5 or 10 minutes late, I'm say 30 minutes or 1 hour late... It seems he can't help himself... Me, well, taking in consideration my husbands complaints, I would have to say, pouting and all that comes with it... yes, I know it's terrible, but I'm a bit of a little girl, like that...

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   teaches12345posted 11 years ago

   My husband is a great person, he listens very well; but I wish he would open up a bit more and share his ideas verbally.  Oh well, guess there could be worse things to have to deal with,

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