Would you rather be in a relationship with a man/woman who cheats or lies?

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   niabyaccidentposted 9 years ago

   Would you rather be in a relationship with a man/woman who cheats or lies?
   
   No relationship is perfect. Every relationship has a liar or a cheater. Which one are you, which one do you choose or do you prefer to be all by your lonesome?
   
   

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   sherwaniposted 9 years ago

   Maybe, if it is better for both of us.
   Relations can be made on Lies, but can't keep the bond forever.

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   Tusitala Tomposted 9 years ago

   What a depressing, no faith-in-humanity, sort of question is this?   "Every relationship has a cheater or a liar."  What sort of attitude the writer of this question must have if they really believe that statement.   Surprising as it may seem, there are people who remain true to their partners, husbands or wives.  And as far as lying, those lies would be no more than those 'little white lies' deliberately said to remove angst or pain from their loved one.
   
   it is said we bring into our lives that which we think about most.  So if this is a belief about others you can comfortably live with, then don't change it.  But if you truly desire more peace and happiness in your life, I strongly suggest you take a more positive approach to the human condition.

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      niabyaccidentposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      I know of couples who have lied and cheated but I've learned at a young age that the more of something you see you start to believe it and you may want to believe in a fairytale but what you actually see is your reality.

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   dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

   "Every relationship has a liar or a cheater." (Every)? Really?
   It's highly unlikely if not impossible for every relationship to contain the exact same characteristics.
   Having said that every cheater is a liar.
   The underlying definition of a cheater is someone who "breaks the rules" by using secrecy and deception/lying. Oftentimes they lie by omission but more often than not they lie or mislead their mates directly about their whereabouts, who they're with, and what they were doing.
   Neither liars or cheaters can be trusted! If you can't trust someone it makes no sense to maintain a relationship with them.

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      niabyaccidentposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      "Every relationship has a cheater and a liar." Is most often disagreeable to those who are faithful and never told a "little white lie" that statement is not a fact at all but just an opinion based on what whoever has been through and seen.

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Just because someone is faithful (now) does not mean they were that way in all of their relationships in the past. My point is even if you have cheated or lied in past relationships it doesn't mean those things exist today. Thus it's not "every".

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      niabyaccidentposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      I understand!

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   msdieliseposted 9 years ago

   Of course not! Trust and loyalty are very important in a relationship (unless it's open).
   
   No, just no.

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