Why you think, marriage and divorce between White men and Asian women are both h

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   peter565posted 8 years ago

   Why you think, marriage and divorce between White men and Asian women are both higher?
   
   Statistically suggest, there are a lot more white men marrying Asian women, then Asian men married to white women.  Yet, divorce rate between divorce rate between white men and Asian women are very high, where the reverse is very low. Statistic from some country, over 80% of marriage between white men and Asian women ended in divorce, yet, only 10% of marriage between Asian men and white women ended up in divorce.  Why do you think that is the case?

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   dashingscorpioposted 8 years ago

   It's been reported that in U.S. (women) initiate 66% or 2/3rds of all divorce filings. I suspect unhappy married men would rather cheat than run down to the courthouse and file for a divorce.
   Another interesting statistic is divorced men tend to remarry sooner than divorced women.
   I'm not familiar with statistics you mentioned but I'll guess.
   It's possible some of these white men married an Asian woman expecting her to behave a certain way according to their traditional culture. However once she became accustom to western culture she began to adopt the behaviors and expectations that her white female counterparts desired. This may have thrown these white men for loop and caused them to want out. Some men have enlisted "mail order bride" services or have traveled to various countries to find a wife whom they believe will not behave as women of their own culture do.
   It's not unheard of for couples from the Middle east to move to a much liberal country like the U.S. and the wife welcomes the changes in culture while her husband resents them.
   When it comes to the Asian man with the white woman odds are it is him who has chosen to assimilate in her culture and not the other way around. He does not expect her to behave like women of his native country while she appreciates him for not being like the men from her country.

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      peter565posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Survey suggest, most divorce are file by Asia girls, saying they choose white men, because the west proclaim its men to be more liberation and better to women, but after marriage, they find Asia men more liberal and better. What is your opinion on it

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      dashingscorpioposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      There are bride businesses men pay big money to in hope of getting matched with an Asian woman. They want something along the lines of Geisha girl who is subservient and will cater to them. The Asian woman however may embrace western culture.

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      peter565posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      possible. But I think those men would be disappointed, in my experience Asian girls are not like that, it is a western stereotype, in fact western girl are more subservient.  I've seen it happen though it was funny in all the wrong way.

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      dashingscorpioposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I agree it's stereotype which is why I believe these men get divorced.
      Once these women come to the U.S. they want the liberties that come with being an equal. They don't want to wait hand and foot on a man for the rest of their life.

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      peter565posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      If they want a submissive wife, they should date a western girl. Contradict to public believe, western girls are more submissive then Asian girls. At Asia most Asian men say "Asian girls are angry yell machine"

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      dashingscorpioposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Apparently there are some "angry women" in both the East and the West!
      The (feminist movement) is considered to be born in the West. You're not going to find many women in the U.S. walking 5 paces behind their man. Granted there are exceptions.

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      peter565posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      True feminism to my understanding is born in the west, probably why western men think none western women are very submissive. Although in my experience, western girls are more submissive then Asian girls. Asian girls are like "Godzilla"

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