How would you know if your partner is falling out of love with you?

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   Dense Densyangposted 3 years ago

   I have a boyfriend for five years and I feel like he's losing interest in me or is falling out of love.  How would I know if he is starting to fall out of love with me? and if he is indeed falling out of love with me, can I still change the way he feels towards or me or make him fall in love with me again or should I just let him go?
   
   I don't really know what he feels because when I personally asked him, he would just constantly say I already know or I should know better because we've been together for five years.

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      dashingscorpioposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Some people "settle" into relationships. They call themselves "practical".
      They (expect) things to gradually be less passionate/romantic.
      
      However the "romantic" envisioned a future where their love would grow deeper over time and they would never stop trying to please each other.
      
      They now feel as if they're being "taking for granted" and they can't help but to recall how things were back during the "infatuation phase".
      They want to know how to bring the "magic" back.
      
      The thing is if (one person) is content with how things are most likely nothing is going to change. If your needs are not being met it might be best for you to move on.
      
      Ironically the thought of losing you may cause him to put in more effort.
      If not it means your leaving is the best thing for you to do.
      
      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
      - Oscar Wilde
      
      

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   Brenda Arledgeposted 3 years ago

   Stop doing everything for him.  He is taking you for granted & forgetting he is responsible for himself.
   I know it's hard to do, but he can function.  I imagine you just took over the role of his caretaker doing laundry, dishes, cooking, etc.
   Only give back as much as he gives to you.
   Find a hobby...do something you want to do.  Spend time on yourself.
   When around him...don't argue.  Have fun in each moment.
   Enjoy life and smile.  He will notice you again.

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   Castlepalomaposted 3 years ago

   I try and try again 100%, if nothing works after that, it's a dead love. There is nothing deadier than a dead love.

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