If you could undo one decision you made in life - good or bad - what would it be?
I'd probably ask a girl out in high school to the prom. I asked her to ask one of her friends for me, who turned me down, but she seemed interested. I got the hint, but didn't act. Times I wish I would have, she was a sweet girl.
Every decision I ever made has lead me to this very moment that I am in now. If I hadn't married my first husband (it was a difficult marriage), I wouldn't have my children. If I had never experienced codependent feelings for the men in my life, I wouldn't be able to help other women who struggle with it themselves.
With that being said, if I could still have the life I have right now and undo one thing - I think it would be to keep that well-paid job I had and go to school with a higher income. Maybe. I'll never know. I really am very happy with how things are going right now. I think I'll just be grateful for where I am right here and now.
Great question - you really got me thinking early on a Saturday morning. Blessings!
Yes - what Kathleen said - almost to the "T".
There is an hour in my past that I look at occasionally and wonder what would have happened if I had chosen differently. Sometimes it haunts me. But I know that life is a classroom and all my biggest lessons were lived as a result of the decision I made that night. I wouldn't be the person I am now if I had gone down a different path. When I knew better, I did better.
I have often wished that I had not chosen to accept a supervisor's position because I lost a job that I really loved. However, the one bad experience in my life forced me to search my soul. I was able to follow another path that has given so much more.
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