In life there are certain trials and tribulations that we all must go through in order to grow. There exists in all of us a means to expand and learn more about ourselves. For some, self-improvement becomes more evident when in a relationship, but they don't always last. Personally speaking, I've never had much luck with relationships. This forum is more of a general discussion. I'm not a therapist, but if you feel comfortable with sharing your experiences in matters of the heart I'd be happy to listen and offer you any advice that I can.