A agree, No it is not wrong.
If you are threatend by a confident woman, expressing herself, the re-evaluate yourself first!
and- Picture aside...you judge her by what she does, not what is said. Then keep it to yourself!
Did you mean is it wrong for women to call other women sexy?
I call my bf sexy all the time! Though, why would it be wrong for a woman to call herself sexy? If she thinks she is sexy then more power to her.
Wrong? I don't know if it's wrong. A lot of women do it. It's disgusting. Half of them are far from sexy.
It's fine as long as she doesn't wake me up to discuss it.
I know by looking at my picture you might want me to sleep in the other room but, when I was young I was a machine! If she happens to be in a mood she may want to know why my machine has siezed up. If I get too comfortable I can sleep anytime anywhere.
Let me see if I got this. She gets annoyed that you sleep rather than have sex? I can understand her frustration. Not sure what this has to do with calling her sexy or her thinking she's sexy. But if the whole sleeping thing works for you guys then no prob. But if not, may I suggest a cup of coffee before chacha night?
Good one, sneakrocksolid.
Seriously, why not call herself sexy if she's feeling sexy? Call herself blue when she's feeling blue. Call herself competent when she does something well. Call herself talented when she creates a work of art.
Call her shrink when somebody finds fault with her for calling herself sexy.
Not at all. The only person that needs to be happy and satisfied is her, so she should see herself as being sexy, no matter what any one else says. After all she's the one that has to look in the mirror everyday, better she can look and see the beauty that's there.
It is far more appealing if she says it in Spanish.
"Te Quero... Te Quero!"
They have the right to call themselves whatever they want to despite there looks/Weight/Height/etc
A woman may appreciate the beauty of another, but it is unspoken.
If there is a step further, one may touch the other.
I think its sexy when a girl thinks shes sexy without having to compare herself to another women or putting another women down.
sexy is a state of mind... so is unsexy, the most beautiful woman sitting on the couch with her cozy pants, curlers and doritos probably does not feel sexy at that time.
I reserve the right to call myself sexy...but I'm much more likely to call someone else sexy because honestly, I look at other people a lot more than I look at myself
All women are sexy in their own way. I find a more average woman way more sexy than a beautiful woman that has an attitude.
Its not just how you look it's your mind set be happy with who you are and it shines through to everyone around you.
if it gives her happiness, why not? it's actually FEELING sexy that's important....
there is nothing wrong with that, I actually encourage it! It makes them feel glorious about themselves.
well, nothing like a man making a woman feel sexy...now...THAT'S the real thing I'd say....
Exactly! By the way, your picture is stunning!
hmm...now are u trying to make me feel sexy??
(that's my laptop cam...taken last week...I could've done with a smile I think..next time perhaps!)
Indeed! Well Have a great night (Try to get a bit of sleep too). It's time for me to ramble on.
lol..will do....u better disappear before they ban us together for hijacking every thread we go to! have a good one...will compare notes soon...
hey she has work to do when she gets home
If calling your self sexy,,, Then I'm wrong. I'm as wrong as wrong can be.
And I don't wantta be right.
A woman should never call herself sexy. She should however be unafraid to project that image and expect to be complimented with that term!
A man has to say it, not a woman.
Sexy = attractive to the opposite sex. Very simple.
And sometimes what a woman considers to be sexy is soooo different from man's oppinion.
By the way, as much as I've figured out - nearly all compliments received from men mean the same, SEXY. That means attractive - though such words as "gorgeous" or "absolutely stunning" might be perceived as a safer option to express attraction.
Is it wrong for a woman to call herself sexy? Only if she's NOT sexy!
It is insanity for a women to call themselves beautiful.
As the old saying goes- beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
The beholder is the one who sees the beauty in a woman.
A woman telling herself she is beautiful is bias. And, gives one a false self-confidence, aside from truth.
I've seen many women consider them beautiful. Yet, she wouldn't be able to get anyone to agree with her.
By asking- do you think I am beautiful? It defeats the purpose of true beauty.
Being beautiful can be instantly recognized by self(through love for oneself and acceptance of one's appearance).
True beauty only exists in the eyes of the beholder.
But the word in question, my friend, was 'SEXY', not beautiful.
There are many beautiful women who are'nt sexy, and many sexy women who are'nt beautiful.
There's of course an idealistic view of the subject, a sort of purist view as you express, my good friend Cagsil. Not to argue with you, but all purism aside---I say she's only "wrong" to say she's something if in fact she's really not that. Let her call herself whatever she wants; so long as she really is that, it's fine by me!
But you missed the point- beauty has to be a part of sexy, because you cannot have sexy with out beauty.
You cannot have an ugly woman be sexy- it's impossible.
If you can find sexy inside/outside of a woman without actually having beauty- then it is apparent that you've had too much to drink.
It's actually only apparent that we disagree, and that you're taking your opinion too seriously. And who's to say that a beholder other than she might not be just as biased but in the wrong direction? 'Tis no big matter to me, but in spite of your personal feelings on the subject, I still say she's wrong only if she says she's sexy but ain't. Case closed!
GoldiString and dre2522, I think you get the picture. Ha Ha....
The question is: is it wrong for a woman to call herself sexy?
I believe you are what you feel you are and no one can tell you any different, however there seem to be people who like to make you feel less than you are and it's usually because they need to bring themselves up.
I found three definitions of "sexy"
- concerned predominantly or excessively with sex
- sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality
- excitingly appealing; glamorous
which one are you? (or make your own definition).
Also, I don't think its a matter of how you feel, more the effect you think your appearance will have on the observer.
Can you be sexy all alone on a desert island with no one to see you?
When I feel sexy, I exude it... in other words I become in myself more sexy, more confident, more glamorous...I feel that, I bring it out of myself.
When I feel like shit( I'm not talking sick), I exude that...in other words I am wearing sweats, no make up, really do not care about my appearence and there is nothing sexy about the way I look.
You exude what you feel...if you feel sexy, you become sexy.
Can I be sexy all alone on a desert island with no one to see me? Absolutely...my sexiness isn't dependent on someone elses opinion, it is how I feel about me.
I don't think I am sexy but my husband calls me that all the time...that is his nickname for me
and no it's not wrong I guess....
A woman can call herself whatever she wants.Even if she wants to create a new word for sexy.She can start a dictionary term for sexy with a different meaning.She can write a book and change our whole out look on the word.So it's not wrong.Let her out the box.
hm... ok. If I say that from now on new word for sexy is nuclear, and I start telling everyone how nuclear I am... don't you think people will just call me mental?
and to let the woman out of the box you have to stuff her into one first
sexy is a state of mind, not a physical condition.
Anyone can feel sexy and should do whenever the mood takes them. You're all sexy, you just have to want to be!
looks like we have a few definitions for sexy: as a state of mind (you just feel sexy, and that's it) and as a reaction from oposite sex (how they see you, what might be different from the first).
I think that even if I feel a super-sex-bomb inside, it does not matter, if others do not see me the same way.
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