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How do you socialise?

  1. days leaper profile image79
    days leaperposted 7 years ago

    How do you socialise?

    There are ways of saying things to people, where do you learn what is appropriate to avoid thoughtlessly saying something that sounded ok in your head?

  2. manofthewill profile image61
    manofthewillposted 7 years ago

    Always take the most cheerful feeling out of yourself!

  3. Wesman Todd Shaw profile image96
    Wesman Todd Shawposted 7 years ago

    I'm pretty bad at saying things that might be offensive to some.  The thing is that I'm nearly always saying what I think is true, but sometimes it comes out before it's been cleared for social acceptance and non offensiveness.

  4. Pollyannalana profile image84
    Pollyannalanaposted 7 years ago

    Read them well before you call them friend and save yourself a lot of sorries down the road. If they act like a nut then they are,,just ask them about me, lol.

  5. duffsmom profile image61
    duffsmomposted 7 years ago

    Really listen to the person you are talking to and ask them questions that are not too personal.  Find something you genuinely like about the person and say so.  They can tell if you are searching for something to say or really mean it.

    I have to admit I am not very good at benign small talk and really hate it.  It is so trivial and never means anything.  I prefer conversations with people that I have a history with.

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    Dandraposted 7 years ago

    In the nude. For some reason I find I have lots of friends.

  7. TCM Specialist profile image59
    TCM Specialistposted 7 years ago

    Live and learn. If they don't beat your butt, then its all good.