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Updated on May 02, 2011

Pssst...Men are you listening? We will fall in love with you if....

What makes women fall in love with men? Is it simple as counting one, two, three? Little bit but more than that, women are easy to please and they want their man to make them the most beautiful woman in the world? Are you ready to say that to your woman? Is it simple as counting one, two, three?, what do you think? This hub is a request from a friend of mine who wanted to know what will he do so that the woman he likes will fall in love with him? What does he think of me, an expert on relationships? Well, I am a woman and I will try to share what do men need to do so that we will give them our love and our loyalty. Fun and happy journey to learning and loving, wouldn't you say?

In all stages of relationships, dating, commitment, marriage men and women are to my opinion the same, they want love, support, respect and time for themselves to improve on their craft or their interest. If one can provide them with that, then it is a good start and ending, or it will never end.

So we will start now, what do women wnat from men so that we will fall in love with them?

  1. Pssst, men please listen, or are you listening hehe? Many times, they say women talk and talk because they like to share ideas and information. Most of what women do is talk about things they did today, about their work, new fashion and the latest gossips. This is not because they love gossips but they love just to talk and share and to analyze things. This is the time that men needs to listen to their partner or the other when they are talking, lend them your ears and listen careful. Women know when you're bluffing and whether you are really listening. Give advice, sit down and listen intently, and you don't need to sugar coat, tell them what it is that is wrong.. Most women like their man to be honest so that they will still improve. For example, the dress they are wearing and the food they are cooking, whether it is palatable or not, you can make suggestions.
  2. I don't know for other women, but most women loves a humorous man, you don't need to have the body of Arnold Schwarzenegger decades ago, but just make us happy and chances are we will both laugh, humor is the best as it is therapeutic. it signals that you will be happier together for a longer time or forever.
  3. Don't forget occasions, whether it is their birthday, anniversary together or whatever dates that are important to them. Women are different, some are sensitive, but most of them want their man to appreciate their most important dates for them. All women need to know is that they know that you spend time looking for that gift and that you didn't just dropped off at the store and get it before you went home. We don't have expensive gifts but a well thought of gift is good for us.
  4. Let them feel that you are thinking of them. Depending on the stage of your relationship, a text or simple message during lunchtime is good enough for us, saying I miss you, or I am so excited to come home to you or meet you later, it means that you're thinking of us during the day and not on the way home after work. It means you put importance to us as early as possible and not when other things during the day is done and you are going home already. It makes us feel important.
  5. Show genuine concern to her friends, relatives and what she is up to, Be attentive to what she is doing and whats her favorite show, food and color etc.
  6. Show perseverance by not giving up on them if you are still wooing them. If we see that you are working hard for us, then we might eventually say yes. And after accepting our love, you should be consistent in loving us, not only when you are wooing us. Most men are like that, familiarity is it? But then, we will love you more if you make us feel that you are still the same man we fall in love with.
  7. We should at least know that you are a provider and you can take care of us not only financially, but then the truth is women still want to be protected, and to know that our man is ready to protect us from danger and we feel that we arrived safely at home in the middle of the night etc.We cannot love a man who is scared of a bugs or rats etc. I have a friend whose boyfriend is scared of rats, and my friend is the one shooing away the rats, hehe.
  8. Make us the center of your attention specially when we are on date. We don't want our men to look at every others direction specially when women are passing by, women see other women as competitor and they compare their bags etc with that woman.
  9. Sweet and romantic -- Now this is one thing that women want, Cuddling after sex is good for women, you just don't sleep on us and go on another world. Women savor the moment and they love to savor it, so just give them time and they will sleep soon. Say "I love you" and look at them in the eye, just be sincere.
  10. Being a gentleman is always good, as women want their man to still pull their chair and open their doors for them. On the first date, you should pay for the meal and everything. Only when the two of you get comfortable can you talk about it and share the cost of the dating.

Most of all, just be true to yourself and we will love you the way you are if you are consistent and loyal to us.

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      rprcarz50 6 years ago

      Wow , I get the first spot ! You have alot of great followers. Should be proud of that. Great hub again. Thank you for this helpful content!

      Ron

      As Always Also a2z50

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Yey hehe, thank you Ron, you're the winner, Maita

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      breakfastpop 6 years ago

      Good sound advice for the man who wants to find a woman to love until the end of time!

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      Hello, hello, 6 years ago from London, UK

      That is a great hub, Maita. Very well put together. Thank you for an enjoyable read.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you breakfastpop, Maita

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      Pamela Oglesby 6 years ago from United States

      I like this hub. Great advice for a guy looking for a long lasting relationship.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you Pamela! Maita

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      manlypoetryman 6 years ago from (Texas !) Boldly Writing Poems Where No Man Has Gone Before...

      All this is good stuff, PDH. This just goes to show me that "Love" is hard work....but I wouldn't give up on it for the world. Great Hub...as always...with some really great tips and advice. You are a great and informative writer...many times over!

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      tony0724 6 years ago from san diego calif

      Maita I have taken notes.

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      thevoice 6 years ago from carthage ill

      great great hub love women hate beer thanks

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      Laurel Rogers 6 years ago from Bishop, Ca

      Wonderful advice, Maita!

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      Mamelody 6 years ago

      well I would kill to have a man who has all those qualities.. Thanks hun excellent hub xx

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      Barry Rutherford 6 years ago from Queensland Australia

      Another Gem !

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      AARON99 6 years ago

      Great tips and so helpful also. Well done. Enjoy.

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      carolina muscle 6 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      Terrific hub.. and thanks for the tips, Maita! :-)

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      Sage Williams 6 years ago

      Hey prettdarkhorse, you did a great job with the advice on this hub. I guess your friend asked the right person.

      Good to see you,

      Sage

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      Tony McGregor 6 years ago from South Africa

      Maita - will you? Promise? LOL!

      Thanks for a great Hub and the points you make are very well taken. We men tend to forget these things sometimes and certainly I need a reminded from time to time. You are a lovely person to get a reminder of these important things from!

      Love and peace

      Tony

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Tony, it is always best to see you, I am honored to always see you around here, and for your compliments, I am honored again, Thank you, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Oh Sage, *i am glad you're back again, I miss you and I am happy to hear from you, Thank you, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Cris, Thanks, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you Aaron, maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Nice to see you around Barry, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Mamelody, hmmm, yes where can we find them? hehe, Thank you!

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi manly, thank you and nice to see you again here, Have a good day! Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi the voice, thank you for dropping by, mMita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hey Tony, you made me smile this morning, thank you, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      sweet lorlie, thank you, Maita

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      blpelton 6 years ago

      Another good one ! you go girl !!! :)

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      thank you bl, youre so sweet! Maita

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      prasetio30 6 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Maita, I am listening to you. I am glad to hear that. this is great hub. I try to be a gentleman. Good work.

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      Dave Mathews 6 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

      Ate' Maita we must remember that this is a "Two Way Street" and even though men like to think themselves as tough guys, men have powerful emotional needs too, that need to feel depended on, desired romantically, appreciated,supported emotionally, respected not put down, not just seen as a provider that should be rewarded sexually once in a while, as a duty instead of a pleasure to be shared.

      If a woman wants her man to see her as beautiful, attractive,desirable, and romantic, then she must continue to appear that way to her man.

      If a woman is high maintenance, demanding expensive clothes and jewelry, cosmetically expensive,like boob lifts or lypo-suction etc. the man is soon going to tire of her.

      Lovingly hug hug,

      KUYA Dave.

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      Cagsil 6 years ago from USA or America

      Hey Prettydarkhorse, you do not really think many men will listen to you or even to their women? :P LOL LOL LOL Great hub and many men should visit and listen to the advice, since most of them already do not have a clue. Thank you for sharing. :)

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      sord87 6 years ago

      Wow,I am lack of word already,We men are honoured and women as well,now i really got to be a good listener,right!Great advice!keep it up!

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      billyaustindillon 6 years ago

      Listening - I am listening!

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Kuya Dave, thats a very nice take about men and women, and yes youre right when you say that it is bothways hehe, Thanks and Bless, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Billy, thank you, youre listening hehe, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      sord, I appreciate you dropping by, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Cags, hmm I know youre listening to us hehe, Thanks, Maita

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      Timely 6 years ago from United States

      Pretty basic stuff and I agree goes both ways. Really nice hub:)

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      Shari 6 years ago from New York, NY

      Beautiful work GF . . dont know how you do it but everytime I read your Hubs I say now there is one smart steeler fan. . hehehe

      smart and pretty what more can anyone ask .. (oh yes and sweet down to the core)

      xoxox

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      Mr Nice 6 years ago from North America

      Hi pretty woman,

      ~My girlfriend told me, I should be more Affectionate, so I got two Girlfriends. ~

      Really nice I like it, falling in love is easy but getting out of love is impossible.

      I am listening but I thought women is the one who wants to listen....

      ~A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears. ~Woodrow Wyatt

      Because women like to be admired, listen appreciate praise, be romantic, be caring, never forget special occasions.....

      ~ To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be. ~Anna Louise Strong

      ~ To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. ~Bess Myerson

      ~ Everyone says you only fall in love once but that's not true, every time I see a pretty girl I fall in love all over again.~ ......Hahahahahaha

      Finally just remember....

      ~ It's easy to fall in love. The hard part is finding someone to catch you. ~Bertrand Russell

      I really enjoyed your hub, keep up the good work. I am in process of publishing a similar hub soon.

      Good night. salamat

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hey wave, thank you as well, Steelers fan forever, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Mr Nice, thats a very long comments with lots of sayings hehe, Now you have two gfs hehe, that is so funny, the thing is that you fall in love again everyting you see a pretty girl, I dont think so, youre a loyal person isnt it?

      I like the one with Anna Louise Strong, it says it all hehe,

      How are you BTW, youre always full of thoughts inspiring ones, thank you for that and for always there, Take care and good morning, Maita

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      Mr Nice 6 years ago from North America

      Hi pretty,

      The girls who has GF's don't need BF's because the GF's are very jealous. I had personally experienced this before so be careful......hahaha just kidding.......don't worry have fun.

      Short comments in future.....Good night.

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      MFB III 6 years ago from United States

      Great reminders of how to keep your woman happy. I have broken a few in my day and lived to regret it, but when I follow such a formula as what's printed above, I am happiest in love.~~~MFB III

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Wow Pretty I agree with all you said here. Men you really ought to get your butts here and read this. :)

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi blonde, yeah theyre reading it hehe, thank you my blonde, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you MFB, hehe, sure you did, but how about now, thank yuo for dropping by, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Mr Nice, I understand that hehe, but of course I will never be jealous hehe, Morning, Maita

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      Gener Geminiano 6 years ago from Land of Salt, Philippines

      Well said and all are true...

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you GH, Maita

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      blackreign2012 6 years ago

      good hub.. thanks for sharing ~hugs~

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you Mam, maita

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      zzron 6 years ago from Houston, TX.

      Very good advice Maita, how have you been ?

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      Beth100 6 years ago from Canada

      You're gonna have a huge following of men Maita! lol It appears that you are an expert in relationships -- terrific insight into our working minds. Hugs!

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      Jeff Davis 6 years ago from California

      but...but...there is 10 things on this list, that could be a lot to adopt ...at any rate, really nice hub. thanks.

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      faithfulpen 6 years ago

      Great advice...now the trick is to get the man to follow it. Perfect choice of ways to please us women.

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      Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA

      I read your hub and hopefully it isn't too late for me!

      Mike

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hehe< you made me smile Mike, Night, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      thank you faithfulpen, youre definitely right, the key is to how to let them follow what you say!

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      thank you jdaviswrites hehe, quite easy? you can do it, HUH, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hugs Beth, Love ya my friend, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      zzron, good to see you again, I am good, How about you, Maita

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      Freya Cesare 6 years ago from Borneo Island, Indonesia

      Maita, this Hub is excellent. Honest and put the right point, but still fair and have good logic. Well done, Maita. ^_^

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      Jaydee 6 years ago

      I dont wanna date again bcos of my first experience.just lonely.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Hi Freya, nice to see you here, Thank you, Maita

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      Bail Up ! 6 years ago

      Really great hub. The world will credit you for putting out a few more better men :) good work.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thank you Bail Up, Maita

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      HubMeNow 6 years ago from Emmen

      You actually forgot one... I know I'm a man, but I've spend my life mostly around women and that has it's advantages. :)

      But I'm single so take this with grain of salt!

      (@Jaydee - I got cheated on, psychologically abused and lied to by my exes. I feel your pain but trust me... some day you'll trust again.)

      A lesson I would tell him is not to tell her that she is beautiful and gorgeous and that kind of slimy things. Men love to be complimented, women seem to like to be complimented in a slightly different way.

      Especially at first-contact he should do special effort to show her that he is an honest man. That she can trust him.

      If he want to compliment her on her looks, he should make a small critical remark just after that.

      Like:

      "You look beautiful, just that neck less looks a strange with that outfit. But I don't know why."

      The clue is only to be critical about little things she won't mind to much. A neckless you can wair with other cloths or she can just ignore because it's an honest opinion from man with no fashion sense.

      But it shows honest interest... even if he's using that "trick" on purpose.

      Great way to break the ice!

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      JayDee, Why, you will have your own time my dear, Keep your head up always!Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      hi hubmenow, yours are all valid point, women want to be complimented and what you suggested is just good and nice way to compliment women and at the same time not sounding like desperate. And yes, that one, he must show her that he can be trusted, work bothways Sir, Thank you and Welcome to HP, Maita

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      royalblkrose 6 years ago from florida

      hubmenow, you're kidding, right? Those off-putting remarks sound like the beginnings of verbal and emotional abuse! start with the small remarks that sound good, and slowly escalate the remarks... bit by bit the remarks become more demeaning, more cutting and soon, that woman will become emotionally wounded and confused in her attempts to please you.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      royalblkrose, it work between the two, sometimes ther eis rapport and tey know each other well, the rule is respect each other and know when it isn to funny anymore, ro juts a joke, thank you Mam,

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      hubby7 6 years ago from Chicago

      Hi prettydarkhorse. I enjoyed reading your hub, and I laughed throughout my reading of it because I know that I have been guilty of doing a number of things that you say that men should not do; for example, falling to sleep immediately after making love, not thinking of my partner until I leave my job and am heading home, and even looking at other women sometimes when we are out together! Again, nice hub, pdh.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Guilty as charged, it means I can assess men, thank you hubby for the feedback, how are you? take care, it is always nice to see you around here, Maita

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      dohn121 6 years ago from Hudson Valley, New York

      I can safely say that this is one of my most favorite hubs by you, Maita. I really enjoyed reading it and I really think that you nailed this one! I really do hope that guys will take your information to hear and utilize it for what it is: The key to getting a woman to fall in love with them! I can certainly vouch for it ;)

      Salamat, Sweetie :)

      Dohn

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      Truth From Truth 6 years ago from Michigan

      Great tips Maita, you really did give some great advice to men that are looking for a new love, and also for men that already have one, they could do well to take this advice also. Thanks.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thanks T, it is so good to learn new things at times, enjoy the Playoffs, Maita

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Salamat Dohn, and thank you for yor nice compliments,I am so glad youre back and really did miss you, Hey Jovit is number one at Google hehe, Thank you, thank you, Maita

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      lxxy 6 years ago from Beneath, Between, Beyond

      Highly romantic. Can't go wrong with these tips. I'm pretty humorous, in a nonsensical fashion..usually. But there are more lucid moments of dead pan delivery.

      Anyway--great hub! You did very well, it was quite easy and clear to read.

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      prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

      Thanks Ixxy, wheres your avatar hehe, Maita

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      280244 6 years ago

      These tips may just work out for me thankyou

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      RCAugust 4 years ago

      How about this idea --

      TRUST THE LORD GOD FIRST, and don't bother looking for a mate until God gives y0u one.

      Yes, the romantic mushy-mushy crap helps, but in the long run, if God isn't in the relationship, it won't last.

      Oh, please remember, relationships begin on giving and end in selfishness. If you are selfish, you might as well fap to that, because that's how you will get your "love."

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      MissJamieD 4 years ago from Minnes-O-ta

      This is a cute hub:) It's nice to share this knowledge with men. It's sweet that your friend asked you to help him with this. Most men go through life never knowing, never asking, never caring much about what they should be doing. He must be a keeper.

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