When Do Girls Think About Breaking Up?
Breaking Up
When do girls usually think about breaking up?
You might wonder sometimes why girls would suddenly just break up with you.
A lot of girls just think, think and think and they unfortunately never share their thoughts with anyone especially you, why? Because sometimes they might think of things they're not sure of so, that's why they wouldn't want to say these things to you.
Well, at least they would have thought about this, not to ruin their relationship on a stage where they wouldn't be sure of it. And instead they would just see how things go with time and how you would treat her.
They would take everything into consideration and once they feel like they really gave it much but are not getting what they deserve to get from the waiting, then they might just stop & intend breaking up.
Nothing happens because of nothing, every single reason and factor can play its role. What if it was really your fault into getting things go and reach a specific result?
In this article I'll be explaining every single reason down here, I'd like to add a note that not only girls do think as such, these things happen to both sexes and not necessarily girls. But, most of the reasons mentioned here can be applied to girls more.
1- Given up on giving more chances
They might have given many chances to you when - whether asked for or not - and they would be just thinking about how many times you missed up and how they won't be able to give extra chances. They would simply give up on doing so, especially when their expectations in you stay limited..
2- Your treatment might be changing into the worse:
Your treatment would be getting worse instead of getting better and while she would be just conscious about this idea to see if she can stay with you or not, you would be taking her love and time for granted and not giving her the treatment that she would be expecting to get from you. The sad thing is that you might really not realize what you're doing wrong with her.
The purpose of argument, should not be victory,but progress.
3- There's someone other than you
There would be someone other than you that she's starting to like and get attached to while you're gone and not giving her the attention that she needs.
This new guy is showing her the care that should be given from you and this is exactly what might be making her realize and compare her experiences between you and the new guy to get her final decisions concerning you.
4- You're not giving her what she wants
There might be things that you might not be giving to her, of course there will be things that you wouldn't be able to give and she would absolutely understand that. But when she wouldn't be getting the things that she can get from you then she would really get unsatisfied about this whole relationship thingy.
How would you know about what she wants though?
I'm sure that she might at least pointed something out for you, perhaps that time when she was sitting near you in the car while you were driving and not giving attention to what she was saying, you know these little details and things?...
5- You're very jealous..?
Some girls might really hate this idea, like if you're that guy who gets jealous on every single thing. This would make her feel as if she's being suffocated and you know this would obviously be a torture for her so this is one of the main reasons of why she might think about breaking up with you. ( I'm sure that you won't like it either if she gets so jealous too..No?)
Try to give her space and let her make her own choices, in the end you still have no rights to take control over her.
6- You're bossy:
Being bossy can be also related to getting jealous because both have the same effects on controlling the girl and not letting her make most of the choices that she would want to take alone and by herself only.
Treat her equally and don't show her that you're the one who have rights into controlling the whole relationship, I'm sure you wouldn't like this if you were in her place.
7- She doesn't feel anything for you anymore
This can be one of the major reasons of why she would want to break up with you.
Some girls might just tell you this and justify why they're breaking up by telling you the truth because they would think you deserve to know it, and because they would want you to learn from your mistakes and learn how to avoid doing whatever you did with her before in the new relationships that you would go through.
She might tell you why she stopped feeling anything for you or she might not tell you at all, it depends. Some girls would not like to hurt you so they might just talk about something bad you might have done to them as an excuse to leave you. Others might love to share their thoughts and let you know all the details so they can help you perhaps learn from the mistakes that you've done to raise your awareness on specific subjects for your future relationships.
These reasons can be expanded into many other reasons and explanations so there are of course other reasons.
Please feel free to share any other reasons that you think would be important to making girls/women think about breaking up right in the comment box below.
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