at the sacrifice of "face", I will be honest .... I see something I like ... I stare uncontrollably .... I am likely to try to find "something to say" (unless, of course, she asks me "WHAT ARE U STARING AT!?!") I try not to "fall" too fast but i am a strickly one at a time girl . I dont date more than one person at a time- ever. I think you have to focus to really evaluate anyone.