It simply means you are human. Everyone does it!
Each of us is entitled to our own opinion and have the right to (choose) our own friends, lovers, and spouse. If we decide someone doesn't make "the cut" for (whatever reason) that is our call. You don't have to "accept" everything or everyone that comes into your life! You get to (choose) whom you spend your time with. To each his own.
We are also judged! It's the circle of life. :-)