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How often do you think about your former spouse?


Do you think about your former spouse every day, about once a week, once a month, every so often, never? It would help my little informal research to know if you are the one how wanted the divorce, if your spouse was the one who wanted the divorce, or if both of you wanted the divorce (a situation that statistically is very rare, I believe). Also how long ago was your divorce? Has time spent in thinking about your spouse decreased with time, stayed the same, or perhaps even increased? Thank you for your input :)

 

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    KatyWhoWaited 4 years ago

    so, r you actually my first husband? lol Downloaded kindle version of ur book Must say, as 1 who was left, these words r a bitter pill to swallow. My present husb often doesn't want the same thing as I do, but wld never leave. Maybe he's too tired.


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    KatyWhoWaited 4 years ago

    Paradise7, I so much appreciate your answer. If I knew I was I thought of nostalgically by my husband who left 20 years ago, it would make me very happy. I think abt that time in my first marriage now, after all these years as a gift, I once had.

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    KatyWhoWaited 4 years ago

    ParadigmEnacted, thought I responded, but just noticed my response disappeared... like 'hey wait, I must never have responded' (Ha!) And I'm sorry you lost your imaginary spouse, lovely being as she would have been.