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Is my wife cheating?


My wife refuses to do anything else on the computer apart from playing Sims 3 and Second Life. We have been married for 9 years and I know that she has been playing the Sims from its inception many years back in her teen years and started on Second Life about 4 years ago. She hangs out with a particular guy in Second life. This made me curious since it is an online game and I know that she is interacting with a real person. She spends a lot of time with this character and I am jealous. I told her to stop. Am I being stupid? Can she actually cheat in the game or should I leave her alone?

 

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    earnforlife 4 years ago

    Great point Abby. I really don't want to hurt her feelings, I just want her to stop playing the game. I told her to stop but I know that she still plays when I am not around. I believe you, the game has captured her emotions.

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    earnforlife 4 years ago

    Thanks for sharing. I do appreciate my wife's hobbies and I have never interfered with her gaming before until now. Since 3 weeks ago, if left alone, she will play all night and for at least 8 hours in the day. Its really bad and we have young kids.

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    earnforlife 4 years ago

    Thanks Colleen. She does not know the man but it hurts to see her get so excited about spending time with him. I think I'll take her out more and stay with the kids sometimes so she can go out with her friends. Hope this will get her back to reality.


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