Will I survive a break up?

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   DeeZignposted 8 years ago

   Will I survive a break up?

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   Jan Lovaposted 8 years ago

   Of course you will... it is hard for sure but give it some time. Time will heal. In a meantime indulge in something else. If it's yours it will come back to you, and if it doesn't it was never yours.

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   dashingscorpioposted 8 years ago

   Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself!
   When it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success! Very few people hit the love jackpot early in life. If this were not the case we'd all be married to our high school sweethearts!
   Our tendency is to wear rose tinted glasses and romanticize our past relationships. However if we honestly look back there were "red flags" we ignored which illustrated we weren't really living in "paradise".
   In order for your ex to be "the one" he or she would have to see (you) as being "the one". At the very least a "soul-mate" is someone who actually wants to be with you! (And vice versa)
   It's important to do a reality check!
   There are over 7 Billion people on this planet!
   That person whom you feel you "can't live without" just know there are literally (Billions of women and men) who are doing just that!
   In fact you use to be one of them before you met him or her!
   Your life didn't just "begin" when you started your relationship.
   Whenever we choose to "shrink" our world or limit our options and possibilities for happiness that's when we become depressed.
   Years from now when you're with someone that loves and appreciates you for who you are you'll be grateful that when they came along you weren't trapped in a toxic relationship or marriage at the time. Grieve among your friends and family if you must.
   However remember that every ending is a new beginning!
   "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
   - Oscar Wilde
   The world may not owe you anything but you owe yourself the world!

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