I just think men are perceived to be the the "fixers" and "doers" in society and they are trained to "take it like a man".
Women do not have any limiting sex-based stereotypes to hold them back. They can generally be as bad as they want to be, and generally get away with their bad behavior with nothing more than a slap on the hand.
I also don't think that social engineers want to hear the truth, or they know what it is, but cannot or choose not to fix it, so they just look the other way.
I think these same social engineers think that women are somewhat like children who cannot control their temperament any more than they can control their liscentiousness. I think if you look around at the current state of affairs, you will see this is so.