What are you willing to give to this person EVERY DAY? What is this person willing to give to you EVERY DAY? Love definitely triggers a host of powerful emotions, but love itself is not an emotion or a feeling. Love is a decision.
Between the day we are born through to nine months or age, we have the opportunity to learn to love as well as learn to be loved. Being that it is not a perfect world, many of us end up at nine months of age having holes in our ability to love and be loved and spend the rest of our lives trying to fill those holes with emotional experiences we call love.
Are each of you able to look into the other's eyes and see in those eyes the most beautiful and gorgeous person walking on the face of the earth? And when the other looks at you, deep into your soul, do you get it, that for that moment, you are the most beautiful and gorgeous person on the face of earth?
PERHAPS, if that is not happening, maybe you have an exciting relationship, but maybe it is not love.