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  1. sbrown1703 profile image55
    sbrown1703posted 9 years ago


  2. pageantgirl31413 profile image81
    pageantgirl31413posted 9 years ago

    My dad didn't approve of my husband so I would say yes, as long as you really know that you love them and it's not infatuation. Are you willing to cause a big rift between you and you father because of this man? That's the question you need to ask yourself.

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    NNathanielStockposted 9 years ago

    Yes, you need to live your life for yourself not any one else.

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    namunaposted 9 years ago

    Yes but you need time to work things out with your dad for him to accept the fact that certain decisions are beyond his control

  5. dl53acy profile image70
    dl53acyposted 8 years ago

    This is interesting because there's a similar situation in my life but to answer your question I have to say "Yes" by all means if you and this man love each other, I say marry him! 

    Somewhere in the bible it states when a wife marrys her husband in that union she should be devoted to her husband first, not her father. I understand you're not married yet, but if your Dad has met him and there is something about him he doesn't like, then adhere to what your dad sees because men know other men.  My dad always told me he could tell where a man is coming from by his hand shake and his conversation. So pay attention to that. But, if he's never met him and is just not ready for his daughter to marry yet then that's when you make this decision for yourself and please yourself.

    Don't let your love get away behind what your Dad says because you may have regrets later about it.

    A good way to test the love you have for each other is do the Pros and Cons game. It's good for both of you to play this game.  Write down all the good he is to you and his qualities, then weigh those bad things that you may not like about him or the bad things he does.  In all sincerity, if the good out weighs the bad then this could help with your decision.

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    holly smithposted 8 years ago

    if your dad dosent love u you should say to them right this is it im going to say to u i think that you dont love me and im moving i dont know where but i am. so bye bye dad i dont love you eny more becouse you dont love me. And u know some children have dads that are from  heven but you are not. And stop saing that you love me becouse you dont you love holly and andrew better then me for example this is whot i whould do just go to them anf say it not keeping it in your heart just go on.

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