Roomates and hostel trauma

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  1. sripoonam profile image61
    sripoonamposted 4 years ago

    Recently due to professional reasons, I am from my home and living with my friends whom i know since 2 years. At first everythings was rosy and fun. We had lots of good moments. Everyone was at stage of proximity and adorable moments. But now misunderstanding and ego has gone at it's peak rate. For a personal like me I need a lot of personal space and quality time for my self . I am a regular follow of yoga, I have to my study, But one of my roomates is far too noisy and immature. She is like a 10 year old noisy girl and stubborn. I live a discipline life but my friends, they can do a mess, they live around sleepers all around the floor, unwashed utensils for many days. O GOSH I AM TOO PSYCHO NOW .But the problem is that I Can't be mad at them . We all come from different family backgrounds and upbringings. Don't know what should I do. I have recently made a decision to change my room and live with somebody else, less familiar person to make a fresh start

    1. kenneth avery profile image83
      kenneth averyposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      You, dear friend, are a very mature young woman. I admire you for your personal insight into your roommates and your self-control and mastery.
      You made a sanity-saving decision and do not abandon this pathway you have chosen.
      The smallest pebble makes the most waves.
      I am still hoping for you to follow me and my misadventures in life.

      1. sripoonam profile image61
        sripoonamposted 4 years agoin reply to this

        well I Have already followed you my friend, I am seeeking forward  to publish my first hub soon, Due to some professional and  persons miseries I am not writing now, but soon I will publish my first hub and this writing is my passion . I truly believe writing can do wonders and miracles which voice may not.

        1. kenneth avery profile image83
          kenneth averyposted 4 years agoin reply to this

          Thank you so much for the following. I am sorry that you are facing some obstacles. I am willing to help if you need me. I am waiting your first hub. I am excited to read it. Take care my new friend and follower.

    2. Nouveau Skeptic profile image73
      Nouveau Skepticposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Are you living wit friends as a guest, or just as a paying co-tenant on a shared lease?

      1. sripoonam profile image61
        sripoonamposted 4 years agoin reply to this

        No it's a shared lease dear

  2. Silva Hayes profile image87
    Silva Hayesposted 4 years ago

    Oh my dear, I can identify.  For now, until you get moved, try to stay away, study in the library, spend time outdoors or in coffee shops, and try to ignore your living situation and not stress out.  Do not change your mind and stay; this is not a good environment for you. 

    When I was young, I roomed with a friend and right away things began to go downhill.  First, she didn't do her share of cleaning and the kitchen was always full of dirty dishes unless I washed them up.  Then one day I came home from work and she had allowed a rock band to practice in our kitchen because they had no place else.  They came complete with a full drum set and electric guitars, etc.  The neighbors called the landlord and we were thrown out.

    1. sripoonam profile image61
      sripoonamposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks for advice mam, I admire it truly, It's really hard for me nowdays, To whom I thut true friend always hatred me , don know for what reason, Now she is playing politics against me and Showing off her creepy and unsophisticated acts just to make a buzz, Lord bless her soul.

  3. word55 profile image68
    word55posted 4 years ago

    Write a hub about it. This should make a good hub. Talk about the different personalities  and backgrounds of your friends. You'll get a lot more feed back. Bring us up to date on your living situation. I must say that living with friends like that can be very disruptive to a lifestyle that you are trying to develop for success.

    1. sripoonam profile image61
      sripoonamposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Yes sir, I truly admire your words, It's a Disaster to live with people of our age coming from different family personalities and yet tolerating their silly acts and bad jokes. Yes I am thinking to write a hub ,but things aren't going the right way nowdays .


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