How To Break Up With A Girl

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  1. HubPages profile imageSTAFF
    HubPagesposted 10 years ago

    How To Break Up With A Girl

  2. xLMTPx profile image58
    xLMTPxposted 10 years ago

    Don't do it through text message. Try to tell her how you feel....

  3. Hiperion profile image55
    Hiperionposted 10 years ago

    Simply talk to her and say that you want to break up.

  4. Miss Match profile image60
    Miss Matchposted 10 years ago

    Step#1. Be a man about it: tell her  face to face.
    See my Hub 'I H8 U' -8 ways how not to dump someone.

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    philosophytorcksposted 10 years ago

    Well really you have to ask your self, are you happy?
    Nobody is fond of being unhappy unless you have a fetish or something weird that way. Trust me if any of the reasons listen below are you, then you are better of without them.

    There are many bad reasons to why couples stay together: the sexual relations, fear of not finding anyone else, jealousy that another person will have them, and also because of their possessions.

    You have to trust that you will go on, and you will find someone else. So don't think about it anymore and just do it!
    You have nothing to loose but a few weeks of orgasms. smile

  6. 1kmjs profile image72
    1kmjsposted 10 years ago

    Ya know I always worried about this one too, I always thought that women were extra sensitive and it would take nothing to shatter thier worlds when a big nuclear bomb like this is to be dropped. Absolutely not the case here. Women are born with a special guard thier hearts wall that men dont have. If you just come up to her and tell her that you dont have anymore to give the realtionship and you cant go any further, they usually understand. They say we can be friends you get a hug and then you cry for a day or so. Unless she's a psycho, then your dead.

  7. Queen_Kevyn95 profile image58
    Queen_Kevyn95posted 10 years ago

    hi there.
    we as girls can be very emotional, especially if we really trust you.  you should definitely avoid texts, emails, and phone calls. if you can't tell her face to face, you don't deserve to be let off the hook about it that easily, period.
    let her know how special she is and was to you, if she feels unloved she might be more upset.  you could try pulling the friends card, personally i like to stay friends with my exes, but she may not share the same outlook as i do.  so, i recommend that you NOT try to kiss her after you break up with her, that's not the best idea.  a hug might be okay, but i wouldn't know whether or not she'd accept it.  if she asks you questions about why, ANSWER THEM.  untied ends never turn out pretty, and she will end up feeling hurt, betrayed, used, and bitter.  if she's the jealous type, unresolved problems may reflect on your future girlfriends as well.
    good luck!

  8. charlettevidal profile image69
    charlettevidalposted 10 years ago

    In a girl's point of view it's really painful if a guy will break up with us but if the relationship is not working then why hang on to it? Painful as it seems, in my opinion I'll appreciate it if a guy will break up with me and give me an honest answer why he wants the break up. Remember, girls really need to have the answers for our peace of mind. No matter how painful it is. As to the question how? That's pretty hard but as the song goes "Break it to HER gently". Have the guts to meet her personally for the break up even if she will slap you in the face in doing so. But if you are a coward then a break up letter stating the reasons would do.

  9. profile image56
    fnadonposted 10 years ago

    Be sensitive to her feelings though be honest. As a woman I know that I need to know the reason why to anything and everything in my life. You cannot stay with someone simply to spare their feelings a little longer. Life is too short. Allow her to hurt then move on with her own life.

  10. mfreeman77 profile image58
    mfreeman77posted 10 years ago

    Seem my hubs (I've written extensively on how to break up, for both men and women.

  11. Gabriel Geny profile image62
    Gabriel Genyposted 10 years ago

    You have to simply ask yourself why are you breaking up with your girl, and that same answer to yourself is what you should tell her, a break up is never easy but you have to be honest with yourself and to her.

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    reeltaulkposted 10 years ago

    Try being a man and let her know you only wanted sex, and now you want to move on to the next female.  More than likely she'll break your nose! lololololoo

  13. BRANCH66 profile image61
    BRANCH66posted 9 years ago

    Just go ahead and do it, more than likely she already broke up with you and just didn't tell you. Keep It 100! They Know Way Before You Do! {You Meaning-MaleS} So don't embarrass yourself by prolonging the end-game.


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