Is it ok to have A friend with fringe benefits? after you been with him for years
You should just do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you were in a serious relationship with them previously, you may not be quite ready to give up the sexual intimacy just yet...But be careful because this kind of relationship can lead to heartbreak when one of the person getting the 'benefits' still has strong feelings involved, it can end in more tears (it's not a clean breakup).
No one can answer the question for you, is it ok for YOU to have a friend with benefits? It is a time honored system for people who don't really date for whatever reason. If it works for you, then it is ok. If you're uncomfortable (enough to be asking online maybe) then you might reconsider.
Sex involves hormones that promote bonding. So, it isn't just as casual as one might think. Do you and your friend feel exactly the same way about it? Perhaps your feelings are deeper than you think, and you are just wary of long term committments. How will you feel if your friend wants other relationships outside of your benefitship?
by craftywhitch 6 years ago
i just want to know if it is ok to have sex with your friend when he is in a relationship and he said relationships are not meant to last
by tata22 6 years ago
When you know that when you follow your heart it will not be ok...is it ok not to be ok?
by Theresa Kennedy 6 years ago
Is it ok to have a crush on someone, even if you are happily married?I was telling this to my sister the other day, that it's normal to have crushes on people throughout our lives, even if we are happily married. It's ok to have a crush, but it doesn't mean you have to ACT on it. Am I right?
by Jo Alexis-Hagues 6 years ago
Can a man and a woman truly be just friendsI saw a video recently, where someone went out filming young men and women, asking this question. Without fail, all the girls answered yes and the boys answered no. However, when the girls were asked if their male friends would want to be intimate with...
by Audrey Selig 6 years ago
If you are a planner, can you have a serious relationship or a marriage with a non-planner?One person wants to play it be ear and you like to plan everything ahead of time. Any ideas?
by daug chibuye 4 years ago
Why is it forbidden to have sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend??
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