only if this friend is in a open relationship with his girlfriend, then i guess that would be okay, as it's your choice. however, if not, then I would say no. it's never good to be involved in a situation like that, as any guy that says, "relationships aren't meant to last" might do the same thing to you once you get together with him.
How would you feel if the person you thought you were in a relationship with suddenly told you they had been having sex with someone else, and what they had with you wasn't meant to last?
If you are going to be non-monogamous, at least be ethical about it. Which is another way of saying, unless all the romantic partners of the person you want to have sex with know about it and are okay with you having sex with that person, don't do it.
yes i know he is a good friend and i thought he was joking at the time i am not like this i really dont know what got into me but in my last relationship i was the other woman and didnt know about it and then had it done to it is too late now but i have learnt my lesson i just want to remain friends with him it has upset me about what i done
Well said relache, If your a swinger and run in a crowd of swingers than it's a go. But the population in general (non swingers) don't like swapping or sharing and take great offense. If everyone is okay with it and informed.
No one can be okay with something if their not informed and given a choice...
We all make our own choices and must live with the consequences. It is not anyone else's responsibility to make your choice for you nor is it their right. Ultimately you know what is wrong and what is right and it is up to you to choose what you wish to do.
OP - Joins HP to attend a confessional Opens a thread to total strangers Bleats about some fictitious event (which could have been a tree falling in the forest somewhere) Gets told straight by the hubber's Arghhhhhhhhhh Feel Sooooooo Much Better now.... Let's the thread die Goes and does exactly what it was going to anyway.....
Phew.... Just another One Night Stand Passing through.. on HubPages
WTF... Do these Empty People come from?
And WTF... Can they do this BS Here on a regular basis?
Relationships work if both people have love and respect in their hearts for each other. Therefore casual sex is not a good idea with friends partners-it damages respect and hurts people when they realise they have been cheated.
This is the sort of stuff that causes people to kill others! If this person is in a relationship then he is cheating... and if you are sleeping with this person, knowing he or she is in a relationship then that makes you a home wrecker!
As humans we should learn to have a little respect for others, and most of all ourselves. How can you respect yourself if you are sleeping with someone elses mate? How would you feel if you were in a relationship and later on you find out they had cheated on you with someone who you thought was just a "friend". After you have a sexual relationship with this person they become more than friends... you become "lovers".
This is immoral and wrong! Remember, what goes around comes around! What you do will come back to haunt you! Good luck with that one!
First of all, why would you want to sleep with someone that's in a relationship? Second,why are you even considering sleeping with your "friend"? Third, how would you feel if it was your bf sleeping with his so called friend? This sounds like a bad idea waiting to happen. People get hurt over mess like this! Don't do it!
As they say everyone has the right to be heard under a "fair judge." Were you sober at the time of the act? If yes, what prompted you to perform the act? Did the act interest you in any way? And if Yes, do you intend to do it again? These are the questions you have to wonder about? How ever much we might say, they could all fall on dead ears.
By the look of things, you are up to for the next episode.
Very philosophical point of view. I just wonder respectfully: where do a person's emotions come into play here? Especially a womans, as we all know men and women feel quite differently about sex. However, there is a certain beauty to your words...
It's probably ok to sleep with a friend when both of you may realized that you have feelings for each other. But definitely NOT ok if there's a gf or bf involved while you're doing it. You have already made the situation complicated by sleeping with your friend, more so if you you're going to be the third wheel.
If both of you are free and single consenting adults, I guess it is ok. But if either of you, or both of you, are involved with someone else, then that is cheating and might cause you a relationship or your marriage. What we see on television is not real.. people get hurt. I don't like being hurt, so I won't do something that might hurt someone else on purpose.
Sex is the only field to unite and become one to help nature in reproduction to continue creation. Please do not consider it as mere tool to satisfy with biological performance dynamics. that is why we are called human.
At what point would you graduate an acquaintance to a friend; when would you consider someone to have truly earned your friendship trust? When would you say wholeheartedly that someone is your truly tested and trusted...
Ok, so this game goes something like this... I'll start off with a certin word, then you may only post one word in reply, aim of the game, make a sentence one word by one person at a time!! Good luck!!Ok ok, lets get...
Lets try a poem. I know we've tried it before, but it will go something like this:I will start by typingI saw a rainbow over the fields today And the next person will rhyme a line... followed by the next person.