your heart wants ur ex-gf back but she seeing a new guy and they are moving togt

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    chris hayesposted 9 years ago

    your heart wants ur ex-gf back but she seeing a new guy and they are moving togther,how to get her b

    Its been 2 months now when me and her broke up, but i still feel her in my arms when i close my eyes.I havent sleep all that great since we been apart and have had two heart attacks from just missing her so much.At first she show sings of wanting me back the first few weeks but after my first heart attack she ran and the guy she been dating since we broke up is now moving in but i still have this feeling we were meant to be. what should i do? I love her dearly but this guy is taken her over throu all her pain for me.

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    MysticLingerieposted 9 years ago

    It might just be a rebound thing. Sooner or later she will have to step back and decide if she wants to go serious with the new guy or try to go back to her old relationship. You cannot force someone to comeback to you, because that wouldnt be true love. Write her a letter, telling her how you feel. Dont ask her what she thought of it, dont bug her about it, let her come to you. If it was meant to be, she will be the one to choose to comeback. Relationships are not one sided so she has to be willing to comeback and try to work it out. Best of luck to you. as they say, it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.

  3. Dark knight rides profile image72
    Dark knight ridesposted 8 years ago

    Move on. Obviously she has chosen someone else and you need to accept that decision and move on with your life. Show enough respect for her and her new boyfriend to give them a chance to build their own life.

  4. jmac2486 profile image56
    jmac2486posted 7 years ago

    No one likes seeig or likes to hear that the ex is dating or talking to another guy or girl when you do still have feeling for them. It sucks! I know you might feel that she is the one for you but you dont want to be with someone that doesnt love you, like you love them. In no means am I saying that, that is the case. Girls tend to hop into a relationship after a break up quicker than guys, mostly because they dont like being alone or need someone help them cope with their heart ache. You need to do what she is doing and start seeing someone else so you have someone to help you through you heart ache. Even if your not looking for something serious, you just need to get your mind off her its just hurting you mentally and physically. While you are worrying if you are going to ever get back together with her or wondering what she is doing you can be missing out on other opportunities. "Its a big bad world full or twist and turns and people have a way of blinking and missing the moment. The moment that could of changed everything." I know I am just a random person replying back but ive been in you shoes before and it does suck. but its worse when you keep chasing after it and days, months and maybe years pass by and your in the same spot you are now. You have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you cant go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.


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