How do you fall back in love with your spouse?

  1. ParadigmShift... profile image75
    ParadigmShift...posted 8 years ago

    How do you fall back in love with your spouse?

  2. Dark knight rides profile image73
    Dark knight ridesposted 8 years ago

    I think you have to recognize that they are a different person than the one you fell in love with the first time. Look to see who they really are now, not just who you remember them to be. And look at yourself, you've changed too. I think if you try to keep in mind that most of us fall out of love when we realize that it's not the same person they used to be, and learn to see who they really are.

  3. HappyHer profile image59
    HappyHerposted 8 years ago

    The same way you fell in love with them in the first place.  Look at the good things about them, give them the benefit of the doubt about other things.  Have fun with them, flirt with them, get to know them for who they are today.  Give them your time, attention and romance just as you pursued them when you first met - and love them without expecting things as you did in the beginning.  Soon you'll find yourself deeply back in love.

 
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