Would you allow your husband to be intimate with a friend?
Friend is depressed and can't find a man because she set her values too high in what she wants in a man. He must cook, he must clean, He has to be flawless and she's about to lose her mind. What she needs to get the edge off. There is no perfect man, no perfect relationships. I don't know why she thinks there is.
Personally, I wouldn't allow my spouse to be intimate with a friend, be that friend mutual or not. Marriage, in my view, is something intimate and sacred, and not to be shared with others. I know my own views do not necessarily match those of others, but no. Monogamy is pretty cool, and I don't want to defile that.
It's crucial that your friend lower her incredibly high standards, yes. The best of luck to both you and her.
What does the subquestion have to do with the question? what do you mean by "intimate". Are you a prude that can't say "have sex with", or did you just mean conversation?
No, debeaner I'm not being modest, it is what it is? My choice of words but if you rather I use the word "Sex" then there you have it. So what was your response instead of targeting minutiae.
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