My wife is cheating on me with a lesbian what should i do to stop it?

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    Ask Dr Dykeposted 13 years ago

    My wife is cheating on me with a lesbian what should i do to stop it?

    I confronted my wife and asked to her stop but she won't. I love her but i dont know how to deal with this. Im phking pissed off.  I dont get it. Its against nature. Its against God. Its against the law! What is it with you people?

  2. The_Boss profile image60
    The_Bossposted 13 years ago

    I would say the same thing if she was going out with another guy: She obviously doesn't love you because she loves her girlfriend and that shows that she really doesn't care how you feel about it. Find someone who can cherish you and love you.

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    MysticLingerieposted 13 years ago

    If shes constantly cheating and wont stop that means there is nothing to work out. Just make sure that if you get divorced you dont loose half your stuff. You could probably take half her stuff though lol. But sorry, relationships are a serious matter but you cant force a relationship to go on if the other side doesnt want to anymore. A relationship consists of two partners willing to be together and make each other happy.

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    jasmineblueposted 13 years ago

    Your wife is a lesbian!!She is never going to be satified with you.Its like a person being married to a gorrilla and expecting that gorilla to not be wanting his own kind which is a gorrilla.God says dont be unequally yolked with a non believer.God also says that it should be man and women.God did not make ADAM AND STEVE he made ADAM AND EVE. I am 14 years old and i do not believe in religeon because religeon is mans way to god.Not even fat buda can save you..Its just a piece of gold.
    You should check where you and your wife stand with the lord.because you can die today and you,mark my words.....will stand in front of an all mighty god.what should a man profit if he should gain the whole world and lose his soul.Thankyou and Godbless

  5. RevLady profile image60
    RevLadyposted 13 years ago

    To try to rationalize your wife's behavior is like beating a dead horse, it serves no useful purpose. If it is clear that she prefers her female partner to you, and her lifestyle is unacceptable to you, then there is no other viable choice than to explore what options are available to you (some listed in comments) and do what you believe is in your best interest. You may want to consult an attorney. Even though love is important, it takes more than love to make a marriage (i.e. trust, respect, unity).

    I regret your circumstance but trust you will make the decision you feel is best for you!

  6. zgzeh1 profile image59
    zgzeh1posted 13 years ago

    Threesomes can make things wierd.  Trust me.  Tell her it bothers you (as you probably already have).  Tell her why it bothers you.  If she can't give up the lesbian sex, she isn't willing to put forth enough effort.  Relationships are a balance.  When one person is exerting way more energy than the other, happiness goes stale.  Sometimes relationships are stressful.  However, a relationship tends to fail when it is more stressful, than fun, for an extended period of time.


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